Well enjoying being young isnt necessarily a crime either! Good luck and
God bless!

Then my friend you are in the wrong company on the relationship
level....

Sex is consumation of pure unadulterated committment and ought not be
taken lightly. When you have sex with someone on conscious and
subconscious levels, you imply security, safety, and refuge in your
arms. In those private moments, where it truly is making love, souls
connect to souls, flesh connects with flesh, and heart connects with
heart. Humans can delight in the sexual experience yes, but it is an
outward declaration of an inward committment. This is of course when you
have a partner you truly care about. If you are just sleeping around
then it is complete and total selfishness.

Honestly, it may not be the right time in their lives to pursue such
things on their end. My advice, get to know them on a deep friendship
level, then see where things are carried at that pointe. Also if the
person is just entirely evasive to you period, they are not worth the
energy or time anyhow. Also give up good dating opportunities and go for
great! Seriously. If you have high expectations that are realistic seek
those, instead of seeming sub par opportunities that you honest to God
have no clue as to where it will go, or possibilitys with no
possibilitys. It makes picking a little more slim, but in the longrun
you will be with people more congruant with what you are looking for as
a potential marriage, or life partner. Have a good one! God Bless!