How do you get someone to give you an chance??? I mean if everyone tells
you how pretty, funny, sweet, and interesting you are, yet they don't
want to try to see where things go....

maybe you could take the initiative and ask the other person out?

Then I would say that they are the ones missing out and you just need to
keep looking and going on with life. Somewhere that person that sees
you for you is out there (at least I sure hope so!)

Maybe you need to take the first step and ask that person out for a
drink? You never know, maybe they are afraid of rejection also! I have
to admit, I would hate to be a man and have to be the one to ask someone
out---what if they did say no...so you be the brave one and just ask the
one that you like out. I think now a days, anything goes. Good luck you
never know till you try :)

take the first step! maybe they dont know how you feel. go after what
you want and you'll be amazed at what you can get! you just have to have
confidence~!

The consensus is and I agree that you need to step up and take the
initiative, your photo would seem to do justice to those compliments you
have received, gotta believe that there is a big heart with lots of love
beating on the inside of you. Go for it, but not too far, look above
what happened to Kay.

i had a guy friend who i wanted to see me as more than a friend...so i
asked him to lunch...asked him over to watch a movie...and it just went
on from there :)

how did it work out for you

Have you asked these people out? Maybe they are hinting to you that
they ARE interested. You won't get anywhere in life if you don't take
the intiative at some point.

Honestly, it may not be the right time in their lives to pursue such
things on their end. My advice, get to know them on a deep friendship
level, then see where things are carried at that pointe. Also if the
person is just entirely evasive to you period, they are not worth the
energy or time anyhow. Also give up good dating opportunities and go for
great! Seriously. If you have high expectations that are realistic seek
those, instead of seeming sub par opportunities that you honest to God
have no clue as to where it will go, or possibilitys with no
possibilitys. It makes picking a little more slim, but in the longrun
you will be with people more congruant with what you are looking for as
a potential marriage, or life partner. Have a good one! God Bless!

Let the other person know what your intentions are.

i wouldn't believe anyone when they say all those sweet things to you
if they never back it up . if i'm gonna say those things to a girl i'm
for sure gonna ask her out but then again maybe he's waiting for the
right time, how long have you been talking?

KING...are you a sweet talker? HMMM I thought you might be, is that when
you are hitting on someone or just trying to oh never mind...haha

Maybe they are shy and looking for an opening by saying those things to
you, to see what your reaction is...but if a pretty lady(such as yerself
for eg) asked me out for coffee or drinks and I wasn't seeing
anyone...damn right I'd go lol.. I do have to admit, I haven't really
had that prob tho..every woman I've been with or married, asked me
lol..yes..I'm just that cute :-P lmao

I have known this guy a lil over a year... we are really good friends...
he says he loves me all the time... but yet he just wants to be
friends... i have mentioned things to him before like goin out... he
says yeah, and we hang out all the time... but i just dont know... he
even was gonna ride a bike over 30 miles just cuz he wanted to see me,
since his car wasnt workin... none of my friends can help me cuz they
think hes crazy...lol...they dont understand what his problem is
either...

Could he be GAY???

Well, that would explain it!!!

I think that maybe he is just uncertain about what he wants. If your
adventerous enough, I would put your cards on the table and tell him
what YOU want to happen. If he doesn't respond in a possitive way
towards your needs, then I would tell him that you can only be friends
and I would move on.

Life is to short for Games. Hope things turn out ok, and keep us posted
k????

T

WE can only hope she has already learned T.........

If you are really in love with this guy, then you should tell him you
want to move it up to the next level. Don't sit around and wait either
and reassure him that if he does not want to be more than a friend, that
it's okay to remain friends above it all...
Some guys dont want to ruin the friendship by getting into an intimate
relationship...but there'sno reason you can't have both...
If he says no, just move on and start dating to let him know you are
serious...maybe it will wake him up.

Very good advice my sweet...lol. Hope your doing well!!