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Fri 07/09/10 01:09 PM

she keeps ordering pizzas to get a delvery boy in her house,,,,noway pitchfork laugh

LMAO Holly wrong thread!!!

Does Holly really know where she is? :p

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Fri 07/09/10 12:42 PM
Howdy!

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Fri 07/09/10 12:41 PM

huh?
laugh


did you say something?

















(((Ed)))drinker :heart:

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Fri 07/09/10 12:40 PM


Think about it this way...should we only date neighbors and fellow citizens of our loaclities or should we be open to the fact there are BILLIONS of people in the world and a lot of miles doesn't make someone wrong for you. ;) In fact...if you believe in soulmates, "the one", etc, then why would anyone assume their match lives in their town/city?


Well, which is better, having someone lie to you from down the street or having someone lie to you from 897,000 miles away?

I'll take the closer one; that way I can throw stuff at them.



a lie is a lie wherever it comes from right...but if you are happy being limited on your options and it works for you then hazzar! LOL, me on the other hand would love if I met someone nearby, however I refuse to put myself in a little box.

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Fri 07/09/10 12:20 PM
Edited by SillynSerious on Fri 07/09/10 12:37 PM
I have always used my real name and picture online. I didn't realize that you couldn't see my real name here until a couple days ago lol.

Hi my name is Cheri. :) and yes, the pics are ME. Everything in my profile is true and I am willing to answer - honestly, anything someone should wish to ask. I would EXPECT the same honesty in return...but as GoofBall said, people can and do lie...in person and online...

LDR's can work if both parties are equally committed to being together and if at least one of the two is willing to relocate should it develop into a love relationship. The only condition would be that if I were to couple up with someone and move somewhere new, it would be better to get a new place together so it isn't "their" place from the get go...it would be "ours"...equal footing.

Think about it this way...should we only date neighbors and fellow citizens of our localities or should we be open to the fact there are BILLIONS of people in the world and a lot of miles doesn't make someone wrong for you. ;) In fact...if you believe in soulmates, "the one", etc, then why would anyone assume their match lives in their town/city?

FTR...IF I were to fall in love and it was genuinely a mutual thing I would move anywhere in the world.

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Fri 07/09/10 12:12 PM

Here is one weird fact about online dating sites. Go with me here on this one.

The general consensus about talking to someone over the net is that people do not know who they are talking to. It is so easy to lie to someone over the net. But then again, how many times have you heard someone say, "I met this person at the club, thought he/she was nice, they told me they did this for a living, and that they said this or that, and I came to find out it was all a lie"? Yeah. Net or no net, people can lie. Is it easier to do over the net? Of course it is.

But....But. When you begin to talk to someone and you both feel a "connection" to one another, then the net works wonders. You actually get to know a person without having actually having seen them. And, I have found that while you don't know everything about a person, with online dating you do learn alot. And, you also learn how to spot a faker.

Anyways, I am saying all of this to illustrate that LDR's can be successful. You take the time to get to know someone and you feel "connected" to that person, then who is to say that it can't work? Requires alot from each person, but don't most relationships require alot too? Just sayin.


Spot on!

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Thu 07/08/10 11:36 AM


it's the environment...the economy...it is affecting everyone in many ways.


I do believe that you are right about the economy. It's majorly stressing people out and causing tempers to flare.

Like LadyLid said....fear is the root of anger.


add the "unknown" to that fear and yer right on target

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Thu 07/08/10 11:29 AM
it's the environment...the economy...it is affecting everyone in many ways.

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Thu 07/08/10 11:28 AM
is secretly Cat Woman

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Thu 07/08/10 10:27 AM
Good article...

My 2 cents...

It goes both ways doesn't it?

The advice given about ignoring the idiots and their ugly comments and just accept herself as she is good advice, however...shouldn't she in turn take that same advice and accept the jerks as they are and for what they are?

It is unfair for any person to seek a relationship with someone THEY may be attracted to and expect them to look past what matters to them in order to appease someone elses feelings.

She is better off waiting til she finds someone who likes her just as she is when they meet and grow it from there. If she gets involved with a man that from the get go is pushing her to lose weight for whatever reasons...that's just a negative beginning.

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Thu 07/08/10 10:15 AM
someone passes me only to slow down in front of me so they can turn off! UHGH!

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Thu 07/08/10 10:12 AM
Up until I was 30 or so I wasn't very political and certainly not very knowledgable about any of it.

In 2000 I woke up to the importance of being a part of the process. I realized, in America, the system is designed FOR our particiation and that if I had a ***** about anything I was in part responsible for the very thing I am bitching about...at least by default for having not been a part of the process. So I got involved.

I'm 42 now and have many years of real politics and activism under my belt. It has cost me because I am not the type who can just listen when it comes to this topic. So I feel if another can voice their opinions it should be ok for me to voice my own. That never ends up good if the opinions are opposing and always bad if someone is talking about stuff they don't know anything about and refuse to discuss facts and truths vs just opinions.

I have been divorced for a few years. Since then I have dated a couple guys from various political stances. I am passionate about what I do politically so it does matter to me. Anyhow, I have tried to date like minded men and that isn't the ticket to love either.

I think when it comes to the politics (and religion)of individuals in a relationship...it DOES matter, but what matters is not whether one agrees with the other, but whether one respects the other and their beliefs.

Good luck :)

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Thu 07/08/10 10:01 AM
Damn I'm tired!

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Thu 07/08/10 09:13 AM
pink bunny ears

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Wed 07/07/10 10:56 PM
I was standing there talking on a microphone and I thought I stepped wrong because I lost my balance, then realized everyone was looking up at the light fixtures lol. Yep earthquake.

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Wed 07/07/10 02:01 PM
a satisfied smile

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Wed 07/07/10 01:57 PM
fight evil polticians and save the world :p

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Wed 07/07/10 01:54 PM

eats Captain Crunch n the nude


Everyone already knows that's true!!! hahahahahaha rofl

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Wed 07/07/10 01:52 PM

Holly is my willing servant at the nudist colony


heavenly wears braids to bed

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Wed 07/07/10 01:50 PM
took heavenlies picture for him, he's just holding a fake camera