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Fri 09/03/10 07:30 AM
to go home

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Fri 09/03/10 03:46 AM

First, you need to have this discussion with yourself. Make yourself a list of questions. Then ask yourself if it's worth discussing it with her. Because, if you're just going to treat her like crap again, leave her alone. She'll be better off without your verbal abuse. No doubt you will abuse the child as well.




Agreed totally...do her a favour and do not go down that road again. Don't put her and this child through that. She deserves to be loved and respected. I hope you got some help for the way you acted so that you can have a healthy relationship for somebody else.

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Thu 09/02/10 09:04 AM
Edited by Startin_anew on Thu 09/02/10 09:14 AM
You can't believe everything that everybody tells you...it all comes with time and trust. Some people just aren't who you think they are. Just be careful but enjoy your journey. Over time you get to know the game players.

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Thu 09/02/10 08:23 AM
onion rings

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Thu 09/02/10 08:21 AM
feel

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Thu 09/02/10 08:16 AM
Everything takes time...you should never feel like you have to rush into anything with anybody. It is either there or it isn't. Take your time, get to know somebody and let them get to know you too. No one should ever feel pressured.

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Thu 09/02/10 08:06 AM
Knocking On Heaven's Door

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Thu 09/02/10 08:02 AM
visiting

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Thu 09/02/10 07:47 AM

thank you but i dont realy know what normal is


I don't think any of us do...whoa

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Thu 09/02/10 07:41 AM
That is awesome Don...glad to hear that! One day at a time and soon you will be back to as normal as you can be..:smile:

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Thu 09/02/10 07:26 AM
Edited by Startin_anew on Thu 09/02/10 07:27 AM
Don its hard to just switch off those feelings from being somebody's love to being just their friend. Its not an easy thing to do. Sometimes its better just to walk away from it all. Good luck I hope it all works out for you!

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Thu 09/02/10 07:10 AM
You have to believe because really what would be the point of a relationship if you didn't believe in true love? You just have to find that right person for you.

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Thu 09/02/10 07:00 AM
yup some people are just a**es. Live and learn and move forward. That's a big red flag of what things would be like if you continued with it!! You deserve better treatment then that!

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Thu 09/02/10 06:04 AM
love it!!! Exactly how I feel!!

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Thu 09/02/10 05:49 AM
I agree it would be so much better to be honest right from the start...there are both men and women who are just looking for "booty buddies" so why not just say so. I mean there is nothing wrong with that if that is what a person is looking for but they should be honest and upfront about it! I would agree with klc don't even sex chat with them..build a trust first. When the time is right the right one will come along. You can't rush love! Good luck....

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Thu 09/02/10 04:09 AM
Very well written and very wise words...thank you for sharing! :smile:

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Wed 09/01/10 07:39 AM
looks like fun!! :)

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Wed 09/01/10 06:47 AM
relaxing

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Wed 09/01/10 06:41 AM
rofl Ya I would say they would be sure signs laugh laugh

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Wed 09/01/10 04:25 AM
smokin