I wonder why we hold on to things or individuals that caused pain...or happiness. Are we addicted to the memories and pain of things that were once good, or do we long to feel those moments again and look for all those traits we remember in every person. Maybe why I'm cautious with commitment. Used to people telling us what we want to hear and consciously telling others the same..I think that's because the ones we hold on to had traits we ourselves have, but the connection we hold and compassion we share with that person shows us that all we hold on to in ourHearts are all in the one in front..guess that's what defines love and seperates lust from the picture. **** I think to much..but what y'all think? We all are a beautiful tangle of just random defects and characteristics. Guess that is what people would place as, " love at first sight". -Me-