I did ask her last night, i wanted to understand, I told her that she never explained to me how much space she requires. I told her that we need to communicate things in order for this to work out, and I let her know that I will give her as much space as she needs for this relationship.

she said that's the way she is, she doesn't like to spend a lot of time with her boyfriends, it is a turn off to her. She said she doesn't want to be like her best friend who spends a lot of time with her boyfriend. Well, that's fine, but I am trying to be in a real relationship where we spend some time together to get to know each other

can't be a booty call, we haven't had sex

I told my girlfriend the other day that i wanted to see her but i knew she was busy...She said "I never hid the fact that I am busy." We only see each other maybe 5 hours each Wednesday. I didn't think it was a big deal that I told her I wanted to see her, but she seems to think she is the only busy person in the world. I thought women liked it when men told them they are missed, but apparently not. She made me feel like I am some needy loser, I'm not needy, I like to spend a little time with my girl.

i have no idea what i feel i guess, i thought it was love, but I don't think i do really know her...I wish I didn't tell her, I feel like an ass

so i told my girlfriend after seeing her for almost 3 months the other night that I am in love with her...She said I love you too, but I can't tell if she means it or if she was just saying it.

I told her the other night that I am in love with her, she told me she loves me too...how can I tell whether she is just saying it or if she means it?

we did the lobster, it was a fun experience, she loved it.

anyone have a good cheesecake recipe that I can try? If possible a chocolate cheesecake

Thanks

about 2 and a half months

doing the cheesecake for dessert
maybe champagne

thanks katydid

the pictures there, just have to click on my name and you'll see it. I took the rest off that I had on here, don't really need them anymore.

what about a baked potato and salad?

thanks starry...i like to cook for her, she likes that I am not afraid to as well.

that's why i asked, i never had lobster before

all very good advice, thanks

It's my girlfriends birthday next week and I am planning on surprising her by cooking her favorite food, lobster. I was just wondering, with the two of us, do I get just one lobster for the both of us or one lobster for each of us? I've never had lobster before, so I have no idea. She doesn't really eat a ton, she is very tiny. Also, what is a good side dish with lobster what kind of wine? My last question is, what is a good dessert or should I ask her the dessert question? I would like it all to be a surprise, but if I should ask her what dessert she likes I guess that's ok.

I have been with my girl for about 2 and a half months, I have fallen in love with her, and I am pretty sure she may be with me too. She already invited me to her 10 year high school reunion which is in August, and she told me she wants to go on bike rides with me in the spring. My question is, should I tell her how I feel or should I give it a little more time? This is a big step in a relationship.

i don't think a week is too quick, I met a few girls from online, I have been with a girl for 2 months now and we met after talking for maybe 3 days online. I don't think it's a big deal.