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Tue 06/14/11 11:58 AM
No: true happiness requires personal fulfilment and the feeling of being whole.

How big does it get?

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Tue 06/14/11 04:23 AM
Edited by Jez on Tue 06/14/11 04:39 AM
Calls it a "golf bat", always has. His friends think it's hilarious.

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Sat 06/04/11 12:43 PM
About a book every couple of months. Currently reading an old book written by a women who grew up as a slave.

What flavour sauce would you most like to lick off someone else?

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Sat 06/04/11 12:41 PM
New Position - Prince

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Sat 06/04/11 12:41 PM
You know karate?

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Sat 06/04/11 09:31 AM
Has a Tom Sellick-moustache fixation (and absolutely no other interests).

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Sat 06/04/11 09:29 AM
I'm in the mood for dancing, romancing - I'm giving it all tonight. drinker

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Fri 06/03/11 12:44 PM
Well done! Hey, wait a minute...

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Fri 06/03/11 04:40 AM
... the end is nigh. ("Nigh" is how posh people in the UK pronounce "now".)

Except it isn't, because someone is bound to say:

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Fri 06/03/11 04:38 AM
You pay for everything one way or another. What comes for free these days?

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Fri 06/03/11 04:10 AM
Jennifer Aniston, Scarlett Johansson, and Gabrielle Union.

Hmm, they all end with "on". Is that because I have a crush "on" them? spock

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Fri 06/03/11 04:07 AM
FLANville. :)

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Wed 06/01/11 04:04 AM

not even if i'd planned
to finally ditch the man
could i steal
a better deal
me too.

love it!! improv writing, now that is special! ty for indulging me.flowerforyou



You're more than welcome. More wine, my dear? drinks

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Tue 05/31/11 04:19 AM
Um,

Your glass is nearly empty,
My bottle's getting lonely,
Our tables are
Too big by far
For two.

We've both been watching couples
Come through the door in doubles
My hand is up;
I've been stood up.
You too?

Whatever were they thinking
That pair that left us drinking?
Do we not rate
A second date?
Well, you do.

Let me pull your chair out
And start our own affair out
Like friends who've gone,
Chose to move on
To step two.

Forget that brace, and savour
They were doing us a favour.

Is it just me, I fear,
Or is it getting hot in here...
... you, too?


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Mon 05/30/11 12:18 PM
Having read this thread, I have come to the conclusion that you are all equally right.

Well done! It's like you've reached a consensus without really trying. That's a good thing, yeah?

(I could of course be wrong, but I've got a good feeling about this.)

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Mon 05/30/11 12:14 PM
If the ice cream van's playing music, it means they've run out of ice cream.

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Mon 05/30/11 11:57 AM

I guess I do disagree with the OP, and I think it is disrespectful - but honestly I would say what he had were relationships with or without the commitment - he had 2 girlfriends who left him for someone else so it may be a matter of meaning

Um, they didn't leave me, we just stopped having sex and I started hanging out with them and their boyfriends!


as what I have seen of FWB - there's usually not a relationship like the one he described

I agree with this. Most of the other FWBs I know personally ended up dating and going out. One couple are still together; I don't know if the rest are still friends or not.


as for casual sex - it;s not like I'm an innocent school girl, but I felt used....even when the guy tried to comfort me and be close to me after the "deed" I pushed him away because it's so far from what is comfortable for me

The problem with casual sex is that it tends to happen without ground rules. FWB can give you a framework for that.
I've had casual sex that left me feeling cold and stupid and overexposed, and I never want to feel like that again. I certainly don't want to make anyone else feel like that either, or feel forced into doing something they don't want to do.

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Mon 05/30/11 09:39 AM

If more people viewed the newest one compared to the old one then I must be doing something right, or my tittles are getting better anyways lol.


Like most things on the web, popularity is directly linked to the quality of your tittles.

:wink:

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Mon 05/30/11 09:37 AM
I know what you mean. There's a hard core of wonderfully lovely and supportive people on here who tend to read and comment on everything, but there's so much of it and only so many hours you can spend thinking of a reply and tapping it out. They can't be everywhere at once.

I don't get many comments myself and I always hope to reach more people, but I try not to take it personally. There's only so many times you can say to yourself "surely it didn't suck THAT much, yeah?" before you send yourself barmy.

Don't beat yourself up about it. It's all subjective, right?

:smile:

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Mon 05/30/11 09:31 AM
Rock'n'roll, dude. smokin