on my personal email from this site and you go to it and there are no emails.
Is it just people who just LOOKED at your profile and are those the ones that they put in mutual matches? I look at them and see NOTHING in common with many and some that I specify in my profile that I DON'T want? Does this site do that so it seems like that they are successful in matching you? Does Mingle do that to make you check out their site, because they get paid per hit from the sites advertising here? It's annoying because it makes you take the time to go to the site and see...nothing. There is not a help desk I guess because of it being a free site, but can we all post on this forum that we would prefer NOT to be notified unless we DO get an email from someone?
Is there a monitor for this site, who could tell us that if we do that, it will have any effect?

it says (?) many people want to meet you but there's nothing in the inbox? Is it the mutual matches (I've always had that but never got emails in my personal emails not JSH inbox saying that I had people wanting to meet me. (I think that's ridiculous category anyway-if they want to meet me they can email, and then you should get an email from JSH that you have a message in your inbox only.)

If there was a way to contact them (and I can find out) we should just tell them to change that.