I generally had a no kissing rule on the first date.....and most times the second date too. In general....most times.......women seem to appreciate that, evidence that I am not just looking to get laid.

However, I did not follow that rule on my last first date.....or the last second date. We are still a couple over a yr. later. So maybe I should have considered it a policy rather than a hard and fast rule.

It really does depend on the people involved and the situation.

Beauty and The Beast.

I seen a dude coming out of the grocery store tonight.
About an 8 day beard, a belly rolling over his pants,
shirt untucked, not looking like 'all that'

With a cute petite blond hang on his arm and laughing.

So if you want to get it on, you better have something going on.

Making life a bit easier for someone else..I will be working.

There is a lot I don't miss. The cold silences, gripping, the never enough, the no fun anymore.

But there is enough of it that was me too.
Trying hard not to repeat mistakes.

Party Foul, Red Flag X 2, someone call the dating police.
Someone wants a kiss on the first date!!!!!!!!!


It is really between the two adults.

No.
Women are ever present, just look around.
Work, School, Church, Social Events. Adult Education Classes. Library.
How can you not meet women.

The trick is asking them out.
After talking to them a bit, ask her out for lunch.

I was raised to stay within ethnic confines, drilled into me.
So I never really got interested in non northern europinos.

Dude....I work three nights a week.
7pm to 7 am.
Then I am off 4 days.
Same schedule for 7 yrs.
They've cut back on some of the bonus dollars for this shift but its still a money maker.

It was an issue when I was married....so I asked if who was going to get the second job to make up for the shift differential if I went to days. At the time it was about 10k over the course of a yr.

Its the Golden Rule scenario.
He who earns the gold...makes the rules.

We participated in a Day of The Dead procession. Drumming/Dancing, floated beeswax candles down the river. It was kinda cold though.
We got home around 9...no trick or treaters at all.

Years ago I took my girls to a haunted house....it was a bit much for kids that age.....maybe 9 and 7 at the time...scared the heck out of me!!!

I hate that duck!

You could be playing Farmville on Facebook.

Breathe.

One Step...

Then another.....

Don't stop................

Get a lawyer.
If possible, pay child support through state, directly from paycheck if available. (You can do this in Michigan) The check is never late, never behind. If the money doesn't get to her....thats between her and the state, not me.
Get a custody and visitation schedule hammered out with the court and stand by it.
See if there are any limited restraining orders/ orders of personal protection that can be put in place that can limit her contact with you.

Since your profile says 'never married' ask court to force a paternity determination.

My 'alleged son' was almost 2 yrs before I found out the truth.

Good Luck

Life is a force, presence, being, which must express itself in as many forms as possible. It is eternal. IT is.

About two yrs ago I went outside late at night to have a smoke, I always look up to see what the weather is...what the sky is doing, where the stars are.
Saw what looked like a cluster of balloons, lit from within, moving north to south, not fast, not slow, then disappear into the high thin clouds. It wasn't til later that I realized there were no lights blinking as required by law on this 'aircraft'

Quoted for Truth.

Chex Sex?

In the men's room at a nice restaurant in Denver a small sticker was placed that read "Surveillance Cameras are for research purposes only"

I have printed some of my own and placed them for my own amusement in other men's rooms.