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Sat 06/18/11 09:28 PM
Uncle Brocca!!!

Can we play Scrabble?

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Sat 06/18/11 03:31 PM

Well it cheers me up, the thought of living somewhere new. I go on different websites looking at different houses, and pick out the one's i'd most like to move into. That's my sad hobbie xD


Well, I go on house plans sites and do the same thing. I don't see anything wrong with that. I enjoy it and that's enough for me!

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Sat 06/18/11 03:11 PM


on this site i have read some smart people
does being intelligent matter to you???

please comment


It matters a lot to me. It's probably the number one thing I'd most require in a partner.




I agree with you. Forever is a long time to live with someone unintelligent.

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Sat 06/18/11 03:05 PM
If it were me, I would take the time to ask permission. You probably don't know if they are copywrited. Besides, each person you ask, ask them if you can do it anytime. Then you only have to ask each person once.

The fact that you are asking tells me that somewhere inside you feel it's worth asking, so you'll feel good about yourself doing it the right way.

Just my opinion.

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Sat 06/18/11 02:53 PM

So I go to the doctor yesterday to find out what this little bump is on my lip. Hes says its a cyst. I ask him, how do I get rid of it, and he says it will just go away by itself.

Ive had it for 3 weeks now, and its really bothering me.

I know you guys arent doctors, but do you know of any home remedies, or medicines, I can use to get rid of a cyst? Should I try to lance it?




If it's actually a cyst, lancing won't help because it's not liquid inside. If it really bothers you then I would say go back to your doctor again and ask to have it removed. That's not something you want to do by yourself in somebody's home.

If it were a cyst on your inner arm or wrist, you could break it up by slamming it with a big book. It will then slowly seep back into your system and go away. I don't think I'd want to hit you in the lip with a big book though LOL.

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Sat 06/18/11 02:47 PM


thx guys for ur input. especially u all who have kids and had to do it alone. that inspires me to keep on pushing. even if i'm by myself for the rest of my life.

flowers


Oh my dearest little one. This does not mean you will be alone it means that being alone with your kids might be a good option. I mean do you really want to put up with one of us right now? Having a guy around right this second may not be the way it is but you have so many possibilities to explore life even if it is right here with us.

What, some 30 post already? And on here you can be a man basher and non of us can find you. Believe me some of the women will welcome you in that department. I'm just kidding!!! Please!!!

No really your going to find a ton of cool things to do here and great people who will love you and are up for being a shoulder if you want it and tons of funny moments to get through tough times. And who knows there might be some flirting along the way. Some of the gang here have met their soul mates.

Man I do sound like a mingle commercial tonight.


Well, you've been here on Mingle for quite a while. I think it's great that you share with others the good points here. It helps us newbies find the good stuff. shocked

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Sat 06/18/11 02:15 PM

Michigan will never be the same.laugh laugh


The same as what!?! I love Michigan. It's true it's getting harder and harder to find jobs that will support a family, but I do love it here. There is so much beauty and we get to have all 4 seasons, which I like.

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Fri 06/17/11 07:01 AM

Who is gonna be around tonight? sometimes I come here on the weekends and it's dead.


Updating this thread to June 17, 2011

I will be here,in and out anyway. In fact, I'll be here EVERY Friday! LOL

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Fri 06/17/11 06:30 AM

Rose, I totally agree

For me the statement should be "life is not so hard".

When we worry about other people's business too much we loose sight of our own lives. Show me a person who butts in other's business and I'll show you a person that is not content with their own life.

It's like Lex says "people"

It goes back to that positive/negative meter. When we are in negative mode everyone looks evil and we must make their lives hard, but look how different it is when we are staying on the plus side. We are seeing the good in them and not the bad we think we see.

That old saying is so true. "if you can't say something nice don't speak at all". In the business world there is no such thing as constructive criticisms. If you have to criticize you should shut everything down so you don't have to back track later. That's why production companies have Proto rooms.

Imagine what life would be like if we could stay on the plus side and every one we dealt with was on the plus side too. We would get to where we are going twice as fast.

In business class they draw a productivity table that shows this. Lets say your on positive charge and a coworker is on negative charge. When the 2 meet they get one quarter of the work done because you have to stop your productivity to fix their negative work flow which cuts your time in half and makes the potential production value one fourth of what it should be.

Shocking!

The power of positive thinking is more than a good title.


Well said!

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Thu 06/16/11 09:42 PM
Edited by LucyEleanorMonoratz on Thu 06/16/11 09:51 PM
smitten

I love squishy pillows
that first sip of coffee
sheets and pillowcases dried on the clothesline
my two dogs
movies that make me cry
movies that make me laugh out loud
a men's a'capella choir
carpet that has the vaccuum cleaner marks on it and no footprints
Snoopy
Crackerjack with a toy surprise
riding the tilt-a-whirl
clothes that don't wrinkle
big thirsty towels
real hugs
my pink longsleeve jersey shirt against my skin
a massage
lilacs, lilacs, and more lilacs, all 3 colors together
sitting by the fireplace on a bunch of pillows sipping wine
loving a book so much I don't want it to end
finding a new author and reading all his/her books
sex that makes me float
animals
the smell of a newborn baby
hearing a child sing offkey with great passion
bumping into a friend far away from home
vanilla baby powder between the sheets
the smell of a new car
the smell of the coffee grinder at the grocery store
riddles that I can figure out
playing board games
finding an agate on the beach
seeing a drop dead gorgeous guy and then he smiles at me
seeing a senior citizen couple walking down the street holding hands
the high you get from working out
still sitting on my grandpa's lap
a slow, all day rain with low thunder rumbling in the distance
the first sight of the mountains when I go to Colorado
new slippers
how my dog Lucy cocks her head when I talk to her
how she uses her "indoor voice" indoors
someone who cares what I love

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Thu 06/16/11 09:05 PM

New here please help me out:banana:


It's good that you have posted a picture, that always helps. But you listed it as white/caucasian and you don't look white. 'also you didn't answer the questions about married, want children, etc. and women like all of them filled in. Do you smoke or drink? We do want to know.

The only other thing I would suggest is to put a little more in your profile. What we read there truly helps us know if we're interested. Most guys fill them in so many girls would just look for one that is filled in.

Good Luck!

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Thu 06/16/11 04:22 PM
self assured, the ability to surprise me, the ability to challenge me, good intelligent conversation, common interests along with personal hobbies or activities they like to do alone, generosity, trust,sexy to me, positive attitude, likes to laugh.

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Thu 06/16/11 03:38 PM


there is entirely too many christian women in this country.also most judge atheist as vile creatures or have the "OH HELL NO" attitude towards atheist.i actually have no problem dating christian women


i agree. i put agnostic on my profiles, but it seems that you have to have something to worship other than women in order to be dating material.
not all of us are bad. i grew up going to church and decided as an adult that i didn't completely go along with what i was exposed to. i still have morals and such. but you would think that because i don't believe in something, anything, that i'm some psychopathic murderer when i'm not busy being a responsible adult.
you don't have to be religious to know that treating people poorly is wrong.


. . .


I can't speak for anyone else, but I am a Christian woman, and I can honestly say that I wouldn't treat an atheist or agnostic any different unless we were clashing because of it. If I were in a club and met a guy, spent some time with him and then he asked me out, I wouldn't say "Well, first I have to know if you are an atheist or agnostic." It wouldn't come up. If we began to date regularly and religion kept coming up and seemed to be a problem, then I would want to talk about it. Are you saying that this is happening here on mingle or everywhere? When I decide if I want to date someone it goes by common interests first so you have a place to start.

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Thu 06/16/11 10:03 AM
I don't kill anything except spiders. I don't want them to come back for a return visit.

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Thu 06/16/11 09:53 AM
rofl


I can change into a Dinosaur..,laugh


OMG not a lickalotopus i hope


rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

slaphead

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Thu 06/16/11 09:49 AM

"Some people think that fiber is only used for 1 purpose" ??????

noway Who Knew?!

Please explain how much better your life would be, if you would have just answered that infomercial last night.huh



I could have removed the tags from my pillows and mattress without guilt! Dang sam, let me know before it airs next time!!

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Thu 06/16/11 08:21 AM

...had someone "apologize" to me after a fun night....taking it FOR SURE......AND, dishing it.

I can take it. (and dish)

Have you ever caught yourself blowing on the salad (no jokes please) and gotten burnt by the soup?

Do you laugh at yourself often? :-)




I'm blond, so if I couldn't take a roast, I wouldn't have made it this far! I'm not bad at handing it out either. My whole family loves to laugh, and we do it often. I need my daily dose of endorfins. I do laugh at myself because I'm funny, but not usually on purpose. Like the one day that I fell into my closet head first while reaching for something. I was laughing so hard that I didn't have enough strength to get out for a while. It made a good story though.

Or the time I was on a first date. He was my escort for my mother and stepfather's wedding. I had a couple glasses of wine, fell off the sidewalk and into a rose bush (ouch). My dress went up so everyone knew what color my panties were. My date failed to see the humor of the situation, while I was once again laughing so hard I couln'd get up without his assistance. He whispered in my ear that if I was going to fall into a bush I should have worn a long skirt so my panties would not show. Oh, and that was our last date too,

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Wed 06/15/11 10:06 AM

There's a lady here that is the spitting image of Mary Stuart Masterson. I forget her name. I'm embarrassed to say who some people think I look like. It seems preposterous to me.


I can see some Steve Martin in you.

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Wed 06/15/11 10:05 AM
Goodness and potential. That's just the way I am.

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Wed 06/15/11 10:02 AM



For the last week there have been threads where
peopleoids have said their super edgy and biotchy
as of late....

It's just the moon, breathe and it'll get better
over the next few days.


I agree! I noticed it yesterday and more today when I felt weepy for no reason.