I'm new here and went through a breakup recently. I hate to sound like a man basher but it really irks me now when men say women are unstable mentally or call them crazy. Its really derogatory. I would hold things in and then end up crying over a small-ish issue when really it was a pile up of frustrations. He had anger and controlling issues but never wanted to admit it. I got so depressed from his labeling and judgements alone. Then I was labeled depressed! I wish men could be man enough to not blame women for everything and label them.