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Sat 12/08/07 07:06 PM
I have.
it was great and then "poof!" no more communication from him..no clue what is up with that, if he's shy, not ready for another serious relationship (where we basically were), or if he's just a player...
just don't put your heart out there right away
rkb

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Sat 12/08/07 07:04 PM

? I quit seeing a lady that was 5 states away because of distance. Well I still care but she started seeing someone else but we still love each other{she has told me so} But whats to give him a chance cause he is closer. Do I keep trying to win her back or walk away and see what happens?


stay her friend, try not to let it bother you she is seeing someone (don't talk about it), let her know you are there for you, and just wait. It's very hard to date someone long distance like that so unless one of ya'll are going to move maybe being friends is all you can have.

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Sat 12/08/07 07:00 PM

I have met a couple guys that have seemed nice on this site. After talking a while on here, I give them my number and we have great conversations on the phone. After a couple telephone conversations and planning some dates, I never hear from them again. Is there something wrong with me or with them? Thank you for listening:)


it's them! I had a similar experience from a guy on here not to long ago, EXCEPT we went out / got together three times, I met his son, he met my son, he told me all kinds of stuff about his life, etc..and now for liek the last two weeks I have MAYBE gotten a total of 5 text messages from him and they are cold compared to the ones he had been sending...So I don't think it is us, I think it might just be (at least some of the guys) the guys...
rkb

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Sat 12/08/07 06:13 PM

There have been religions that have actually worshiped cats, it's kinda weird.


better than worshiping DOGS!! I love my dog but come on!!

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Sat 12/08/07 06:12 PM

Oh you people laughed when I said people worshiped cats...well heres proof!



"A cat is a cat is a cat," wrote e.e. cummings. And history would seem to agree with this distinguished poet. According to earliest records, the first sign of domestication of the cat dates back 8,000 years ago where bones of cats, mice, and humans were found buried together on the island of Cyprus. Apparently our early relatives brought both the cats and the mice to Cyprus with them—the cats on purpose, the mice perhaps as stowaways.



The family of cat can trace their genealogy back to ancient Cyprus and Egypt, an impressive feat. Unlike the domestication of the dog, pack animals, with a built-in cooperative instinct, the full domestication of the cat about 4,000 years ago was not so easily achieved. Nomads of the upper Sudan area of Egypt established their agrarian communities in the rich soil of the Nile Valley.

Growing crops became a way of life for Egyptians, as it did for the tribes of Africa and primitives of southwestern Asia where cats later appeared. Since crops could only be harvested once or twice a year, the question became how to store the life-giving grains? Enter rats, mice and other vermin who quickly adapted to human ways for the promise of a free meal. Before long people noticed that the local cat population ate the rats that ate the grain, which to them was a very good thing indeed.

Diligent in ridding the area of rodents, people welcomed cats into their communities with open arms. The perfect supply side economics involved the farmers who wanted their grain intact, rodents who wanted the grain, and cats who wanted the rodents. The farmers wanted to encourage cats to stay around the house and farm so they left milk soaked bread, fish-heads and other scraps of food to attract cats. Cats simply discovered an ecological niche for themselves, a steady source of food, and affection from their human company.

If you think that cats are snooty, you might be right. Cats are simply remembering their exalted place in history. The relationship between Egyptians and cats was unique. During that period of time, Egyptians owned all kinds of animals including cattle, sheep, fowl, pigs, and monkeys. Cats freely roamed the land and came and went at will.

Laws were created at that time to protect cats, since they were held in such high regard. Due to the cat's exalted status, a religious order of cat worship developed that lasted for more than 2,000 years. The cat goddess Bastet became one of the most revered figures of worship. Bastet had the body of a woman and the head of a cat. Associated with fertility, motherhood, grace, and beauty, Bastet's largest temple was in the city of Bubastis. The word for cat in ancient Egypt was "mau," similar to our "meow," a universal cat word.

Inscription on the royal tombs in Thebes read:

"Thou art the Great Cat, the avenger of the gods, and the judge of words, and the president of the sovereign chiefs and the governor of the holy Circle; thou art indeed…the Great Cat

During the reign of the Pharaohs, it was considered a capital crime to kill or injure a cat, even if the cat died through an unfortunate accident. If a house caught fire, the rule went like this—cats first, humans second. If a cat should die of natural causes the entire household went into elaborate mourning with chanting and pounding of chests as an outward sign of grief. The body of the cat had to be wrapped in linen and delivered to the priest who inspected the cat's body to be certain the cat had died a natural death.

After death the cat's body was embalmed, wrapped again in linen, decorated and either buried in special cemeteries or entombed in temples. Thousands of cat mummies were preserved in a huge temple at Bubastis. Mouse mummies were also found in the tombs, to assure that the cat had food for the journey into the afterlife. In fact, the Egyptians so loved their cats that cats mummies far and away out numbered human mummies found in Egypt. Over 300,000 cat mummies were found in one excavation alone at Beni-Hassan in the 1800s.

Because the Egyptians so prized their feline companions, there was a strict enforcement of the law against exporting cats. However, cats were so good at catching rodents they soon found their way aboard barges on the Nile River as mouse catchers and companions to captains and sailors.

Cats soon sailed aboard ships to countries bordering the Mediterranean including Greece and Italy. Overland caravans lengthen the cat's popularity to the north and east. Slowly cats migrated to India, China, and Japan, where they were highly prized as pets and impressive rodent killers.

Once royalty in Egypt, cats today have not forgotten their heritage. The cat is here to stay.

http://www.judithstock.com/Speaking_of_Animals/History_of_Cats/history_of_cats.html


wow you know your 'cat' history...

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Sat 12/08/07 04:47 PM
dead right

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Sat 12/08/07 04:07 PM
lol oh god

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Sat 12/08/07 04:05 PM
cute, very cute intro

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Sat 12/08/07 03:47 PM
lol too funny!

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Sat 12/08/07 03:45 PM
your cute, and your crazy...

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Sat 12/08/07 03:14 PM
you loved her..and your depressed..Though it's hard, try not to think about her and try to move on, just don't jump into a serious relationship until your over her--that wouldn't be fair to you or the girl.

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Sat 12/08/07 03:07 PM
hell, at least she had the guts to tell you straight up. I had a similar experience not to long ago and the guy wouldn't even be man enough to SAY he didn't want to be involved anymore, he just quit communicating with me all together.
I wish I could say to just let her go but I understand you not wanting to give up on something that feels so right.
trust your instincts...that's what I'm going to try and do..
*hugs*
Rebecca

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Sat 12/08/07 02:53 PM
no losers for me! I'm sick of being hurt by players and losers too!

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Sat 12/08/07 02:50 PM
right on brim!

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Sat 12/08/07 02:42 PM
Edited by beccakatisonly1 on Sat 12/08/07 02:43 PM
cute! maybe your cat WAS wanting you to say hey..or let up on the catnip happy

fyi, a year is not short term..short term is like a month or less ;-)

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Sat 12/08/07 02:39 PM
so sorry for your loss..how are you holding up?
:cry: *hugs*
Rebecca

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