Keep your shirt on. Represent your authentic self in photo and/or profile. Don't open with your "cold and lonely bed," "need touch," "want to flirt," etc. Look for women who have something in common with you and live in your area. Meet in public in the middle of the day, more than once. Getting attention depends on the woman. Some appreciate meaningful conversations, soft-spoken, polite, kind people who have passion for a subject in common. Put away expectations. Some women pick up on that and if those expectations are beyond getting to know her and having conversation, then you've betrayed your intentions. Some older women like younger men because there is a better chance of finding someone without old misogynistic patriarchal ways, with a strong passion for what they believe in, and who have energy and hope to go out and make their goals happen. Also, some women are not age fetishists and are open to people of any age who display the qualities they are looking for. It might be a little creepy for me to know a man only dates older women and doesn't care about any other details. Treat an older woman the same as you would a younger woman. Hopefully that is with respect and curiosity.