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Topic: Help us younger men out, Older Ladies
Allenjohn6638 Joined Mon 04/01/19 Posts: 2	Wed 12/11/19 11:51 AM
So this is to not only help me out, but maybe help some of the other guys on this site. Though some men on here are looking to chat with older women (myself included), some immediately want to jump into the woman's pants and make it all about sex, ruining the opportunity for the flip side of that coin (which is talk, see how it goes, form a friendship, open to the possibility of it becoming physical). I know young men are not everyone's cup of tea, but for those that are, what are some things that we young men can do to not only get your attention, but reinforce the idea that we're not going to jump down your pants after the first response back.

Freebird Deluxe Joined Sun 12/23/18 Posts: 4637	Wed 12/11/19 01:58 PM
28? You look like you could pass for older , just pretend you are

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48912	Wed 12/11/19 02:14 PM
I know young men are not everyone's cup of tea, but for those that are, what are some things that we young men can do to not only get your attention . . . I'll just watch to see how people respond.

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Wed 12/11/19 02:28 PM
I know young men are not everyone's cup of tea, but for those that are, what are some things that we young men can do to not only get your attention . . . I'll just watch to see how people respond. share that stuff david puhlleassssse

ciretom Joined Wed 06/18/14 Posts: 4953	Wed 12/11/19 02:44 PM
, what are some things that we young men can do... My guess would be: 1. Not beg. 2. Not ask them to take responsibility for you and have to tell you what to do. 3. Be attractive. 4. Be interesting. 5. Be what they're looking for. 6. Not make it all about you while promoting/hiding behind false altruism. Just a guess.

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21248	Wed 12/11/19 03:02 PM


Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Wed 12/11/19 04:11 PM
Be respectful first off. DO NOT talk about how much you fancy her. Saying things like, "I like the way your eyes speak" is better than "you have beautiful eyes". Trust me, we women on Mingle have heard it all and same old is boring. Genuinely be interested in her life.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Wed 12/11/19 04:14 PM
And don't scare her off by saying you are coming to visit, when you have only been chatting a short time. It makes you appear stalkerish.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Wed 12/11/19 04:15 PM
28? You look like you could pass for older , just pretend you are No, bad advice. The truth always comes out in the end.

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21297	Wed 12/11/19 04:23 PM
Tell her you're not looking for a "mother figure", unless of course you are. Then flash a wad of hundreds.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48912	Wed 12/11/19 05:00 PM
Tell her you're not looking for a "mother figure", unless of course you are. Then flash a wad of hundreds. If he had a wad of hundreds, then I doubt that he'd be seeking an older woman.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48912	Wed 12/11/19 05:01 PM
I know young men are not everyone's cup of tea, but for those that are, what are some things that we young men can do to not only get your attention . . . I'll just watch to see how people respond. share that stuff david puhlleassssse

Bastet127 Joined Wed 06/12/19 Posts: 967	Wed 12/11/19 06:05 PM
If any guy can pull down my pants after the first response back, I’d like to be in on that magic.

try me. Joined Wed 12/11/19 Posts: 4	Wed 12/11/19 07:19 PM
I love older man myself

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21297	Wed 12/11/19 10:39 PM
I love older man myself Do you inform them of your "status" first, or just keep em guessing?

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21248	Wed 12/11/19 11:23 PM
Tell her you're not looking for a "mother figure", unless of course you are. Then flash a wad of hundreds. If he had a wad of hundreds, then I doubt that he'd be seeking an older woman. Nah... He has no game. I doubt he could get laid in a women's prison, even if he were waving a fistful of pardons.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Wed 12/11/19 11:49 PM
Tell her you're not looking for a "mother figure", unless of course you are. Then flash a wad of hundreds. If he had a wad of hundreds, then I doubt that he'd be seeking an older woman. Nah... He has no game. I doubt he could get laid in a women's prison, even if he were waving a fistful of pardons. A fistful of pardons lol. Who is this "he" you are writing about? Motowndowntown?

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21248	Thu 12/12/19 10:27 AM
Tell her you're not looking for a "mother figure", unless of course you are. Then flash a wad of hundreds. If he had a wad of hundreds, then I doubt that he'd be seeking an older woman. Nah... He has no game. I doubt he could get laid in a women's prison, even if he were waving a fistful of pardons. A fistful of pardons lol. Who is this "he" you are writing about? Motowndowntown? The he i wrote about, was the thread starter.

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