lol I am not sure if this is good advice......I am at work lol can't be drinking

I would really like some eighty degree weather, right about now

nothing a swift kick in the ass can't fix lol

I am in PA, it was sunny here but the clouds ate the sun....BASTARDS

awe! my first smartass

ok great timing, now I have to go on my lunch....be back in 30

how is everyone doing today?

oops sorry

BIG Sigh!!! no takers

lol ok as gay as that sounds, I would like someone to talk to. I work in a bank that isn't very busy and I have way to much time on my hands. I don't talk alot to the women I work with cause I suppose I we don't mesh well. Just want to socialize, in a boring attmosphere (my spelling is horrible lol)

You know what really sucks since I feel the need to be so careful what if I do let the good guy go cause I was simply to scared.

thank you, he really is sweet, and seems like the guy I have been looking for. It has only been a week though, so it is hard to decide what to do. I am having a bit of a conflict here. I would love to run blindly into it, you know jump off a ledge and hope there is something soft and bouncy to catch me. I am just a little scared.

Get over myself???? WOW! That is what this is. Either you have never been hurt before or hopefully for your sake just heartless. I am giving the guy a chance. I do think he is nice and could be completely wonderful, but why does it have to be rush rush. If you like someone all that much then you should have the respect to give them what they require. All I require is time to adjust. Damn evil me!!!

this helps alot really, he is nice but dammit things change so fast......slow is good

I want to move forward, just slowly

So I met what seems to be a nice guy a week ago today. I have always been the type of person to move slowly. Be it that I think it wise or my trust issues kick in. All and all I like the pase of moving things slowly. So this new guy has asked me of relationships past and I let him know that I have been hurt before, much like all of us. I am not holding it against him, but I am also not readily available to give my all just yet. He thinks after a week of knowing him, I should know him well enough to trust him. Am I wrong to be holding back.......???

I am not alone in my hatred of Valentines day, wahoo. of course that just might make me bitter

I don't want to become a door mat, it just sucks what if he is legit. And because I may have become a bit cynical in my years of dating I don't believe him. Since I don't know him all that well yet, I can't judge the sincerity of his appology.

lol no ladies responded him. He said his brother called and he had to ge to the hospital quick. He said that he ran out the door without his cell phone. I don't know he called and explained, said he had to go again and would call back and did. He just called me today like 5 min ago.

I thought of that, don't know that name