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Wed 02/29/12 10:35 PM

With the economy as bad as it is maybe the nurseing home jobs will keep a few peole from being hungry. I just hope they improve the care that is usual before the majority of us get to that age.
:cry: :cry: ME TO. STAR...:heart:


Or else,,I just MIGHT go lay down in the woods and go to sleep forever,
when I feel to weak to want to wake-up!:heart:

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Wed 02/29/12 10:32 PM
Real people live behind these screens, and have real names.
THIS NET is not just a place to come on and be mean, and play games.
Hearts CAN be broken, FRIENDS are NOT, just a given TOKEN.
WORDS CAN KILL,,just like a BULLET, piercing deep into a heart.
ITS NOT PLAY, ITS NOT FUN, To lie to others, just to rip them apart.
Romance is NOT, just done to get laid, or be PLAYED.
Romance is done because, thats how Love is MADE.
Drama is NOT something you do when your BORED.
OTHERS feelings and hearts, should always be ADORED!
I've seen so many who thought they found their MATCH.
But they were only played and abused, discarded and USED.
LONG time friends here, getting DROPPED, because THEY COULDN'T let-go!
FRIENDS who really care about you, WILL always STAND beside YOU.
ALL those friends who just used those words. Didn't really love YOU!
YOU may not like me on here, because I HOLD all my friends DEAR.
But for six years now, other's know I make peace and lift hearts.
My word is my bond for others to know and respect. Not take apart.
Don't let YOUR words here to another, be a bullet to their HEART!
THIS PLACE IS A HOME WE ALL SHARE AND CARE ABOUT WITH REAL NAMES!
:heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:


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Wed 02/29/12 09:19 PM
:angry: NOgrumble grumble grumble grumble grumble and NO


rant YOUR ALL,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,:cry: LOVED!!!!!sad

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Wed 02/29/12 09:09 PM

Once surrounded in life's lessons, today begins by swimming along...
noway SHOW-OFF!!!laugh laugh


Very NICE!!flowerforyou

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Wed 02/29/12 09:08 PM
((((((((((((TERRY))))))))

By Surrounded once along in life's, Today's begins swimming lessons?

I like,,,Sneaks,,,,thanksflowerforyou

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Wed 02/29/12 09:07 PM

Today begins once swimming along in lessons surrounded by life
Very Cool Penny...flowerforyou

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Wed 02/29/12 09:06 PM


Well,,lets see....I had about 60 MPH winds blowing me side ways,
and the truck in front of me blew about TEN feet over on the shoulder.
BUT,,he kept it held and brought her back.:banana:
As my eyes got pretty BIGsurprised,,,,,,laugh

THEN,,,their was this white stuff falling so rapidly all around that the road disappeared a couple of times,,,and,,, thats about it..

huh It was an ugly Day,,,laugh



So glad you are ok..flowerforyou
:heart: Thanks Miss Fox,,I have protection------->:angel:

:wink: laugh :banana:

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Wed 02/29/12 09:05 PM

It was 70 degrees here today and sunny.. unheard of in February..

Also, I got water in my ear today when I washed my hair..everytime I open my mouth , like yawning, I hear frogs singing...bigsmile
noway FROGS-------------------->Can SING??????????laugh

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Wed 02/29/12 08:59 PM
HI Holly,,my wittle JOLLY,,,,How ya been..

HI Sneakers,,,HOW YOU been doing to,,,

As for proposals,,,,A,,,WAIT A MINUTE,,,I'll BE RIGHT BACK,,noway

Exit stage LEFT!:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: devil




:angel: shades

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Wed 02/29/12 08:56 PM

I'm a woman seeking a woman for dating. Women, please tell me what you think.
noway



surprised




whoa




:thumbsup: I'm a,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,man,ohwell BUT,,,I THINK YOUR NICE

And THAT should mean something,,shouldn't IT?slaphead :wink:

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Wed 02/29/12 08:54 PM
Well,,lets see....I had about 60 MPH winds blowing me side ways,
and the truck in front of me blew about TEN feet over on the shoulder.
BUT,,he kept it held and brought her back.:banana:
As my eyes got pretty BIGsurprised,,,,,,laugh

THEN,,,their was this white stuff falling so rapidly all around that the road disappeared a couple of times,,,and,,, thats about it..

huh It was an ugly Day,,,laugh

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Wed 02/29/12 08:48 PM

Hahaha that would have to be put out in detail before I would say that love would conquer all...........

My ex could not seem to keep his pants zipped up lets see deal breaker or love conquers all ???????


There are many quirks that can be overlooked some tend to turn into big quirks that have to be dealt with that love can not overcome....




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Infidelity,,would be just a BIT more than a quirk,,,:wink:laugh
BUT,,,pants ALWAYS unzipped,,,NOW THATS another story,,:heart:

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Wed 02/29/12 08:34 PM

Pfffft.
I think love means always taking
the WHOLE package.
Or not.

Flaws are wrapped up, like old flags,
and put away.
You know where they are, but they
serve no purpose.
Never to be mentioned.

I love the sum total of his parts.
I never wish that one thing or another
would disappear, for fear that might
detract from what makes him who he is.

True love sees, but believes.
:heart: WISDOM,,comes through the witness of many lived moments
THIS is very much,,to many, the LIVING results of LOVE shared..TY

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Wed 02/29/12 08:31 PM


Make the determination, to choose your love to be for life.

IF, they had little silly habits or quirks,,,that bothered you?


Could YOU,,look passed them, and still except them,,
or COULD THAT. Be a STOPPER?noway


I could/would overlook them because he'd have to put up with mine :smile:


:wink: :heart: :heart: A SHARED over-looking,,,lol
YES,,I like this as to have THAT mind-set to believe in,,TY

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Wed 02/29/12 08:30 PM


Make the determination, to choose your love to be for life.

IF, they had little silly habits or quirks,,,that bothered you?


Could YOU,,look passed them, and still except them,,
or COULD THAT. Be a STOPPER?noway


This is an excellent question T....I'm thinking silly little quirks or habits are deal breakers ONLY when you're NOT in love but just thinking you are...Know what I mean?.....If you are in love, those silly little quirks that might drive someone else to distraction don't bother you at all and can even be things you find endearing or charming in your partner....This is the beauty of love...:heart:
:heart: A very TRUE statement as for MANY who have lived to know this,,Thanks Leigh..

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Wed 02/29/12 08:26 PM

When someone gotta change my diaper and it ain't just for fun ..........put me down.
drinker I here ya man....SOME THINGS,,just never need to be done bt others for ya,,,

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Wed 02/29/12 08:25 PM

I want to live as long as I'm able to enjoy life and have someone to love (that may be a cat or dog).

If I'm able to be creative in my studio and in the garden with a pet or two and a few close friends, I'm good.

I don't want to be incapacitated, living in a "home" and depending on others.
I believe MANY feel in this manner of thoughts..drinker

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Wed 02/29/12 08:23 PM


I wanna be old and grey. sitting on the front portch wathing my grandchildre.happy


How do you wath your grandchildre?laugh :wink:
I guess YOU never made a typo,,huh offtopic

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Wed 02/29/12 08:19 PM

I have often thought about this.

When I was a child and having the life beat out of me on a frequent basis there were times when I just closed my eyes and prayer for Jesus to take me home. There were times when I am pretty sure he " took me for a walk" a few times because I survived my youth.

With repeated miscarriages I often wondered if what I was doing in the world as an adult was really worth anything then I was blessed with a child that donfirmed if I did nothing else I had a purpose and it was a blessing to put above any hardship.

When my children went out on their own and eventually appear to be more than strong enough to thrive in the world I wondered if the sometimes searing pain I live with day in an day out was my permission to stop fighting to keep my body that seems to find new3 ways to betray me daily going. Without medical intervention I would have died a long time ago.

Now I have a 84 year old terminally ill parent who has worked no less than sixty years, out lived two wives, his son, and mll of his friends and many of his aquaintences. Barely able to swallow, stand, or do much more than lay in pain the majority of his days dependent on 24/7 care has chosen no more intervention and pass hopefully peacefully before many more weeks are passed. To my way of thinking I am honoring his choice as I hope when I find myself with a similiar absence of quality of life I would be allowed to pass/

I honestly do not know if I will find another purpose for my life when that happens or not. I have friends/family that I hope would miss me, a period of my life I hope to enjoy as much as I can, but will I allow anyone to force me to live what I may find as eventually an empty and intolerable life I can tell you with certany the answer is no.

Could I determin the moment; yes and no person on this earth really has the power to stop me fortuneately in a free society that allows us the privilege of self determination when we make that decision with sound mind and write an advanced directive that prevents others from inflicting life when we no longer maintain it.

Do I know exactly what day, what age, that will be.not really. I have friends that have quite advanced lives and even though they can not do everything they once could still do enough that they live and even enjoy thier life. Not to mention contribute to the lives of others. With technology I am hopefully for me thaqt is a couple more decades but who knows. I have no crystal ball.
A very IN DEPTH look as to the many thoughts within us all here Star,,,,thanks..:heart:

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Wed 02/29/12 08:15 PM


How long do you want to live to be?noway

I mean,,,like,,,until your as old as your breath can go in and out?
Or as long as you feel your still able to do?

I mean,,its NOT,,lol,like we really have ANY CHOICE of that matter.
But,,just wondering the thoughts of most here?
well, we DO have a choice when to end it :angel:
:angry:he LIKED that answer Jer... ------->pitchfork


REAL ANSWER PLEASE?noway laugh THIS dude wants to know-->:angel:

rofl

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