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      Let's not forget this is both a dating and social site, you can be here for one or the other or both. In my opinion there needs to be that mutual attraction, similar goals, values, and compatibility, and wanting to make things work. Taking the time to learn about each other by becoming best of friends, before making the big leap in to marriage or living together.
     
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      Without good communication on both sides, friendship or romance will not develop in my opinion.
     
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        Your Popularity Meter
       
      
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      Ladies, put up those beach photos, should boost your popularity if not your score.  
    
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        Lied to and Scammed
       
      
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      I have several photos, none are blurred, photos should help paint a picture of who you are in my opinion. After exchanging a few emails here with someone, suggest a video call if you feel comfortable with it, scammers will not want that so should help you filtering them out. Good luck in your search.
     
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  "The phrase you're looking for is "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away," a popular quote often attributed to Maya Angelou. It emphasizes that the quality of experiences and powerful emotions, not the quantity of time, truly defines a meaningful life."  | 
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      I have just tested my own search criteria and it works for me, and I am a free member. Good Luck.
     
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      Always have a plan  B. If you feel their enquiries in to your personal financial situation, seems more like fact gathering, start talking about your prenup agreement before sharing your life with anyone. That should impress.  
    
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     Impressing a new acquaintance?  Dress well, smell good and be courteous, all makes for a good start. The money question not so easy, in my opinion it is not so important for people in their early twenties because mostly both parties are just starting out in life, and interested in building it together, whereas people say in their fifties and more established, would perhaps be more interested in finding a partner in similar circumstances financially, if only to protect what they have already achieved in life. 
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      Impressing a new acquaintance?  Dress well, smell good and be courteous, all makes for a good start. The money question not so easy, in my opinion it is not so important for people in their early twenties because mostly both parties are just starting out in life, and interested in building it together, whereas people say in their fifties and more established, would perhaps be more interested in finding a partner in similar circumstances financially, if only to protect what they have already achieved in life.
     
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