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Wed 11/05/25 03:19 AM
Edited by Duttoneer on Wed 11/05/25 03:25 AM
I have become friends with women by meeting them in situations such as work, evening class, parties, and it has remained as friendship. Dating someone and finding it's not a match, is where I would not want to become friends, for all the reasons mentioned here. Difficult sometimes to see the difference between kindness and interest, your kindness in accepting his visits may have been interpreted by him as possible interest, perhaps he was only seeing what he wanted to see. In my opinion, failed romantic dates should end there, and not morph in to friendship, because if it was one-sided you are storing up more pain down the road for them, or more heartache for you knowing it will never go anywhere. Yes, part as friends, but leave it there.

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Wed 11/05/25 02:20 AM
Edited by Duttoneer on Wed 11/05/25 02:22 AM
Well, I'm glad you are here, hoping to catch the benefit of your voice on relationships.

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Mon 11/03/25 01:37 AM
Let's not forget this is both a dating and social site, you can be here for one or the other or both. In my opinion there needs to be that mutual attraction, similar goals, values, and compatibility, and wanting to make things work. Taking the time to learn about each other by becoming best of friends, before making the big leap in to marriage or living together.

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Mon 11/03/25 12:59 AM
Without good communication on both sides, friendship or romance will not develop in my opinion.

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Mon 11/03/25 12:52 AM
Queen.

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Sun 11/02/25 01:59 AM
Oasis.

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Fri 10/31/25 02:11 AM
Mindbenders, The.

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Fri 10/31/25 02:03 AM
Edited by Duttoneer on Fri 10/31/25 02:07 AM
Ladies, put up those beach photos, should boost your popularity if not your score. smile2

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Tue 10/07/25 02:15 AM
King Crimson.

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Wed 10/01/25 05:12 AM
INXS.

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Mon 09/29/25 07:25 AM
Guns N' Roses.

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Fri 09/26/25 01:14 AM

An elderly lady appearing on tv said that she believed the bottle of Guinness she drank ever day is the way to a long and happy life.

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Wed 09/24/25 11:21 AM
I like this quote from the internet.

"The phrase you're looking for is "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away," a popular quote often attributed to Maya Angelou. It emphasizes that the quality of experiences and powerful emotions, not the quantity of time, truly defines a meaningful life."


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Wed 09/24/25 11:10 AM
I have just tested my own search criteria and it works for me, and I am a free member. Good Luck.

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Mon 09/22/25 01:07 AM
Emerson, Lake & Palmer.

waving

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Sat 09/20/25 06:40 AM
Canned Heat.

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Thu 09/18/25 07:31 AM
Animals, The.

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Sat 09/13/25 11:53 AM
Yes.

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Thu 09/11/25 01:39 AM
Always have a plan B. If you feel their enquiries in to your personal financial situation, seems more like fact gathering, start talking about your prenup agreement before sharing your life with anyone. That should impress. smile2

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Wed 09/10/25 03:33 AM

Impressing a new acquaintance? Dress well, smell good and be courteous, all makes for a good start. The money question not so easy, in my opinion it is not so important for people in their early twenties because mostly both parties are just starting out in life, and interested in building it together, whereas people say in their fifties and more established, would perhaps be more interested in finding a partner in similar circumstances financially, if only to protect what they have already achieved in life.

honestly,,,,


Yes. Honestly.

It would be nice to see your take on the post.

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