successful

hikes

rubber

Fie

contemplating

Kettering, OH.

Jackson, OH

Anyone here but me..

okay, maybe not anyone (just not me).

p.s. You make me feel like 2 million stars

Thank you sweetie

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Hmmm, lets see here; for one, you're separated (not yet divorced).. looking for love, although most likely not even healed from the previous relationship (that's not fully dissolved yet), you don't have anything stated in your profile (if people have common grounds of interest, you will naturally find much to discuss) and you need more pictures (us females are visuals just like men).

Gross and very unattractive!

If that movie doesn't make you cry, then, I myself am worried about you

Let me know what you think of it

LOL.. just when they think they're interested, they realize a woman w/ way too much insight and experience could be the end of their love life LOL "just kidding"

Good luck w/ your search dear

It's not that they solely want us to depend on them, nor are they actually scared. They just can't fathom the fact of a woman being "secure" in area's that possibly they aren't. Some men try to use control (yet only the woman allows it to actually take place) and they do so to balance within what is unsettled. Men think women are easily trainded and/or controlled, what they don't know is, women like myself can easily tame down and control them just the same. It's attitude of unrealistic thinking and unbalanced characteristics. When someone (man or woman) seems "frightened" or "intimidated" in whatever respect, it's up to us to show and teach otherwise. It's truly not that difficult if they're interested in seeking in someone what you're pursuing yourself. Someone needs to be the smarter one to turn ones lack of expectation (or standards set too high), confidence, security, etc. around to be reachable and worth associating with.

This I understand all too well. My best friend in the world is the most remarkable man ever (hear me out as more is to come). We decided to take it to the next level, committing our selves to each other; yet only to find that this love we felt wasn't love worth marrying. Just because we seemed to connect on all necessary levels, certainly didn't mean we were meant to be as one. Because we're so concerned and devoted to such friendship; we tend to feel as though we're the one to protect, understand, complete, make adjustments to accomadate ones schedule, to make laugh, smile, cry, etc. It can easily be mistaken as love within a relationship.. opposed to loving a true & dear friend. I thought and still think highly of Michael and he is and forever will be a part of my life. It's when you allow your friendship to "just be" as it's supposed to, that you'll soon enough find someone who actually fits the definition and dream of "pure happiness & love." I have learned it the hard way, then again, in the most sensational way as well.

Don't get down on yourself. It's not necessary and will only keep your blinded eyes from seeing someone who is meant for you. Smile, life is wonderful and good things come to those who not only "wait" but to those who allow their "heart" to be open under realistic measures.

Good luck.. you'll be fine and so will your friendship, just as soon as you realize the depth of it.

You've either done a little too much editing to your eyes (to make them extremely blue) or you have contacts in to change their original color (looks a bit tacky)

Again, it is what it is. Yes, I did say it and now I've said it again. If you can't handle honesty (brutally) then don't be dumb enough to ask "certain" people questions you wish not to hear an answer to. I will tell you, just as it is.. it's a shame most people leave out the most important info. (unlike me).

Having a plan and/or plans doesn't necessarily mean "goals." Sure you can plan for your future (realistically within a period of months/years) and consider that a goal; something to strive for/toward. Yet still, a plan/plans can mean having a schedule, consistency in some respects, some things are time-consuming (so preparation is smart), routine (again, consistency.. say going to the gym, specific meetings for work or weekly family conferences/get-togethers, etc.). Then again, you can plan to be spontaneous (expect the unexpected). A friend calls and wishes to meet for coffee, a drink, lunch away from work, or even just a night on the town (an hr. before). And as some people do, a quick plan for a weekend vacation (the night before).

Just my extensive thought