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Is it possible that I'm just not cut from relationship material? I'm not talking about being promiscuous as opposed to being committed to one person. I'm not wild like that and I am a highly loyal person. It seems like no matter how much I care for a guy I feel a sort of weight on my shoulders when it comes to being IN a relationship. Like I have to be the grown up and deal with any issues that come up and they just get to be carefree and in love. Why do I feel like a parent when I'm in a relationship? It's happened to many times to be them... it's gotta be me. Do you think its because if you are carefree that you would lose control of your life? I'm just a realist... I know life isn't all hearts and rainows |
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Relationship Material
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So here is my question... if in fact those are the kind of guys I am attracted to then am I better off alone?
Here's the thing about me, I am VERY independent and I can't handle guys who try to take care of me. So are there really only 2 ways? I find a guy that I have to take care of or one who wants to take care of me? |
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"carefree and in love" have yu ever been able to experience this. I think I am picky and I don't fall in love with just anyone. Bt when I know I found a special person, I do let myself become carefree and in love. There is risk in everything without being wild and untamed and yet still allowing your heart to be a lil vulnerable at times. I not saying every guy that makes an offer or gesture, but when you find someone, let your heart go and enjoy the ride. 
In the beginning but it never lasts long and even that is more like carefree and in "lust". |
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Relationship Material
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Most people follow a trend in "falling" for the same type of people. Take some time to see the type of guys you have had in your life and see if there is a similarity. Then...find someone different. Not all men are like that. There are women out there like that as well. Good luck to you ! It's funny how they are all so disimilar in most ways except for this one thing. I wish I knew how to not attract them. |
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Relationship Material
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Is it possible that I'm just not cut from relationship material?
I'm not talking about being promiscuous as opposed to being committed to one person. I'm not wild like that and I am a highly loyal person. It seems like no matter how much I care for a guy I feel a sort of weight on my shoulders when it comes to being IN a relationship. Like I have to be the grown up and deal with any issues that come up and they just get to be carefree and in love. Why do I feel like a parent when I'm in a relationship? It's happened to many times to be them... it's gotta be me. |
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At 5'2'' I can't say that I've ever had this problem lol
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Any woman who has ever been in a relationship with a guy knows that they WILL fart... we do it too we're just more discreet.
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I am moving!
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Oh man talk about "finding the right place" I'm trying to buy in OC right now and the market is crap
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Dining out
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I actually stopped dating a guy once solely because of the way he treated customer service type people (people he thought he was better than). I always tip well and am friendly with my servers, and I always get GOOD service.
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None that I can think of that are still here
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Krupa's Journey Begins..
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He arrived safely about 2:45, we have been yacking away..he is firing up his kindle to mingle :-) Oh, there will ba a party one day :-) You better let me know when this party is... I'm not that far from you and willing to make the trip! |
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Age
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It absolutely does matter to me. I need someone who is on the same page as me in life, that usually means around my same age or a little older. If I met someone I really clicked with that was a little younger that's fine but I'm not trying to babysit or date someone who is as old as my dad.
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Guys you can say you like natural beauty all you like but truth is when you first meet a woman you are attracted to chances are she has some form of make-up on. Men are attracted to beautiful women and women are attracted to manly men. It's in our genetic makeup (no pun intended). This is why guys work out and women wear make-up... doesn't make any of us shallow it's just in our DNA to find a mate that is aesthetically pleasing. I do agree that there is a time and place for make-up though.... I don't wear it on a daily basis but I'm not gonna go out on the weekends looking like I just rolled out of bed.
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Nice guys...
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Message to the nice guys. 
THIS!!! I like guys who are lots of other things aside from nice. |
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Men do it too... people take rejection so personally because they are insecure.
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It's just my name... nothing exciting
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Money or IQ?
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One of my college psychology professors stated that the only thing an IQ test measures is how well one does taking that particular IQ test. So, how would you know if someone really had a high IQ? Well who can argue with a psychology professor... clearly he is the authority on IQ's and how we test them 
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Money or IQ?
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I don't know what my IQ is. I'm guessing it's pretty average. I wonder if I would understand more stuff if it was higher. My step-dad is super smart. He pretty much knows everything. A high IQ comes with scatter-brain. You process everything into minute details, and then process the minute details into minute details...It is, well, a struggle at best. And then taking into consideration that intelligence is not nearly as valued today as it was in the 1500's, such as times of da Vinci and the likes, you're effectively alienated socially. And that isn't even tapping the expectations of society once they learn you have a high IQ...Might as well burn us at the stake at that point, because inevitably we will disappoint you. *Eh, got the date wrong.* I agree that a high IQ, at times, is not all it's cracked up to be... nor does it imply the skills to make money. I'm pretty people savvy (not by choice) but there are still sometimes when simple things people do and say go completely over my head. Social skills do not come with a high IQ either, if anything it impedes them. |
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Money or IQ?
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I was born with out money and a high IQ... seems to be working out for me so far :)
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You should never regret love... only the bad choices you made in the name of love.
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