I have learned things aren't always how you are seeing them...look closed, pay attention, and take your time getting to know someone before you take the BIG STEP into marriage! Never, ever accept acts of jealousy as a compliment. jealousy will destroy your life!! It is very dangerous, damaging, and comes from a sick, insecure person!!! gee, I feel much better now...thanks. Rhonda

The Bucks??!! OMG..They sooo SUCK!!! Anyone would be happy to be traded off that team.... lmao I just relocated to Indy from tampa Bay area and good riddens BUCKS

Nice, but in response to "..Gods day", I cannot agree since the Sabbath is genuinely on the seventh day which is Saturday. It was changed many years ago when Christians were forced to worship on the day of the sungod or perish. Think about it, HE rose on the day after good Friday. ...Saturday. Now Sadam is trying to give us an ultimatum to convert to Muslim or else he holds direct threats to the U.S. Hmmm, is he trying to make a new biblical chapter.... Rhonda

Proposed marriage!! lol yeah, u might want to steer clear of the desperate ones!! I didn't even notice I was in the NEW MEMBERS forum..dummy me! I am definately not a new member but was reading in that discussion and probably just went for what I was wanting to discuss from there..oh well!! I had to just be totally honest with a man myself and drop the rejection line on him. What are some people thinking anyway!! Good luck...Rhonda

Feel like a dummy..wasn't scrolling down far enough and figured it out right after sending my plea for help!! lol Thanks anyway...Rhonda

I am going crazy trying to figure out how to write a 'testimonial' for someone!! can anyone HELP?? I invited a friend from Florida to join, he did, and he does not have a pic yet. I wanted to help him out by writing a testimonial til he gets a pic and let the 'girls' know how handsome he is by someone who knows him well. give me some feedback...please!!

Word of advice is, find out what another person is looking for, if anything and what they may or may not even want from you. I say this so as not to make a complete fool of youself by being over suggestive to the wrong person who may be insulted by whatever you may have insinuated of them. Granted there are definately some very fast 'people' on this site who will hook up with everyone and anyone...their business and to each their own, but there are also a few very decent people looking mainly for friendship maybe even leading to...well whereever it may go. You might be interested, genuinely in another member and lose their attention just by saying the wrong 'line'. Just FYI guys and gals......Rhonda Can anyone relate to this topic from the giving or recieving end? Let me hear youe experiences...

HOW 'BOUT THEM COLTS!!!!! WOW! GREAT GAME. WAS WORRIED AT FIRST WHEN IT TIED UP 10-10, BUT I'D SEEN THEM COME BACK AT THE LAST MINUTE BEFORE. THIS TIME THE COLTS DIDN'T NEED A 'LAST MINUTE' THE COLTS TOOK CONTROL AND KEPT IT! LET'S KEEP THE SPIRIT UP FOR THE COLTS!!

Oh Thank you!!! I don't really feel like it either, lol But I
absolutely am!! My son and daughter tell me they have caught up with
me. We are mistaken for sisters and sometimes I for my sons girlfriend.
he wants me to get a t-shirt saying "I AM HIS MOM" LOL

Yeah, why are you shooting us all the bird? We offer you words of
wisdom, advice from our hearts....well it's just terrible. lmao

I am in the Indianapolis are right now

Oh, okay Stormey. That sounds better. You had me scared...lol

lmao!!! Well desertgirl I'll be needing that ladder too since I am not
even 5' tall...lol!! Buying clothes is one hell of a nightmare for me
and shoes!!! I wear a 4 1/2 so usually I have to get a size 5 or go to
the kids and step into a 2 1/2. I just moved up to Indy from Tampa Bay
area of Florida and it is cold and I have had a time finding clothes.
There are no colors in the clothes here. Everything is black, brown,
blue, gray or green. It is something to get used to. But that date
does sound very nice if I knew the man longer.

I didn't mean to come on strong stormy, but nothing in my life,
especially on a first date, depends on what 'they' want to do!!! 'They'
do not have the first and last word with me. I have my own mind and
make my own descisions

You definately have the perfect first date desert girl!!! Have a good
time and good luck

WHAT?? You may be overly submissive, lol ...but not me honey.

Talk about spelling!!! Look how I spelled FRIENDS, lmaorotf! I sent u
a friends request, sorry, quess I should't critique your spelling
anymore huh?

Hey I am with the mind being tired!! I sent you a firnds request if u r
interested. That way I can find u and talk more another time. I think
u r very interesting and also cute. I think I am going to bed. Oh, I
forgot I have NO BED!!!! I just moved here from Florida, sold my house,
am staying with my daughters family waiting for my new apartment to be
finished. The construction is almost complete and hopefully I will be
able to move in soon!!! I am missing having a real bed and my own
SPACE!! lol

Well Marie the thing is I am not comfortable being alone with a new
'date', a stranger at night. I would rather my first date be more like
lunch in a coffee shop or even a public park area, zoo, art gallery,
anywhere but dinner, movies and nighttime dating. May say I am too
cautious but I have reason to be that way and that way I have to stay.
lol

im..group chat and email option