I'm looking for the girl of my dreams and can't seem to find her. Can
anyone give me some advise on how and where to find her?

where have you tried looking for her at?

what's her qualities?

Yeah, do you know what you are looking for?

well, let see... the first thing to find out what you looking for is try
to get in touch and keep conversations... communication is most
important if you looking someone on the dating site..
I had alot experience to communicate with some ppl on dating site...some
just dissapear... LOL..
but I'm lucky, I still have many friends keep communicate with me since
couple yrs ago... that's the good thing..

Well the really best advice that I can give you is that all this
time that you are spending looking for this perfect match for you, It's
not going to happen untill it does. You will stumble upon, or meet, her
unexpectedly. When you least expect it she will probly seem to come from
nowhere. It's alot of work to find the one of your dreams. But really,
it's the seeking for that special someone that helps us find them. It
seems that you have joined that great quest that many of us have joined
ourselves.

I completely aggree with Netuserella. You can't force it to happen. And
when you find her might be a inconvienent time for you when you don't
think you're ready or involved with someone else. But we can't choose
when we bump into the right one. There is always a reason for it. They
may be a season in your life that's meant to teach you something, or
someone to get you through. Or they could be your "Soul Mate" that you
are destined for. Sometimes it takes patience too. I know a couple
finally getting married after 9 yrs of best friendship. He was a 49yr
old bachelor, and it took years before they admitted to each other that
they were right for each other. Persistance can pay off.

I have the same problem, I know we will meet when the time is right but
I seem to have a hard time approaching men and they dont seem to
approach me either. Bummer for me but I know it will happen some day.

Simply have a hot chick, and ask her out... hotty,s are usually the
right ones...!

lol

always looking for th one,,,but th best way I can think of would be thru
poems,of sending her best wishes,and love.
it may take a while,but if she responds to them in a positive way,,,it
was worth th long lonely wait,if you feel in your heart that she could
be th one for you...flowers help too....M.
don't give up so easily...give it time and space,love will find each and
every one of us someday like what "SWEETY185" said...M.

Really wish I could help you for if I knew that I would not be on any
sites myself or rich one getting everyone connected. Sure would be sweet
to know that everyone had someone that they were happy with. Ohhhh heck
sorry I was day dreaming. But just hang in there it will happen just
takes time.

all that I ask,is for love to say .... "WHEN"?

HUMMM, M don't hold yer breath cause don't think ya would look good
BLUE. ( gottcha again)(for love don't talk)

love speaks in many hidden ways...

but you are a funny one just another funny bun Hunnnnn...M

hey, down2earth, try this: stop looking all together. go on with your
daily life as if you get laid every night, and have the love of the one
you had once before fallen the hardest for, and then, my friend, it'll
happen on its own. many times, i tried probably too hard to find
someone, now, i've learned each time that when i stopped looking, they'd
come looking for me.

James is right, try too hard and you come across desperate. Relax,
enjoy yourself first, and you become a magnet. also helps to check your
horoscope daily.

i'll drink to that, tx!

lol, I've been asked for coffee by the guy behind me at an ATM, I've
been asked to lunch by a customer at work, and winked at in a Home
Depot. You can find a "friend" anywhere and everywhere, finding a soul
mate starts with friendship and moves on if you click. No rhyme or
reason to it. Fate. Destiny. Luck of the draw. But you have to take
the gamble, jump in, and put yourself on the line.

I JUST WISH THAT A WOMAN WOULD LOOK AT ME FOR WHAT IS INSIDE INSTEAD OF
SEEING ME AS A DISABLED VETERAN. I CAN GIVE LOVE JUST AS MUCH AS ANYONE
OUT THERE