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Sun 07/27/08 05:01 PM
I've been told to stop looking so hard but I have stopped and just pray for God to send me someone. I know God works in His own time but I hope I'm still young enough to enjoy someone once He sends them.

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Sun 07/27/08 04:36 PM

I am just having a tough time getting people to reply, my divorce is not final and most want a divorced man, I guess.ohwell


The fact it is in the works is better than what I have found. Most say "separated" then give a dozen and one reason why they can't get the divorce. It's a married man's way of having his cake and eating it too. No ties, just his little side occupational therapy.

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Sun 07/27/08 04:17 PM
Edited by cherokeeangel53 on Sun 07/27/08 04:26 PM
I agree Joe. I have many friends I've met through the past year. It seems the men I've met for the most part aren't looking for a long term relationship, just to see how quick they can get a person into bed without even getting to know the person's heart. It's so frustrating to me. I long to find true love again. I'd been married since I was 17 and I hate being alone.

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Sun 07/27/08 03:51 PM
I didn't realize it said no answer. I am DIVORCED! yeeks!




Stick to what you are looking for then you will be truly happy. Have you tried any older Christian single groups? I say don't settle.


I've tried everything. I've been on these sites for a year. I go to bed at night and pray for God to send me a good man that will love me.
Why does it say no answer on your marriage status, that would make me wonder. Have faith maybe a man is not what God thinks you need right now or it is not the time. I tell you give me a good friend any day. Friends in this world make a difference. Male or female

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Sun 07/27/08 01:34 PM

Stick to what you are looking for then you will be truly happy. Have you tried any older Christian single groups? I say don't settle.


I've tried everything. I've been on these sites for a year. I go to bed at night and pray for God to send me a good man that will love me.

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Sun 07/27/08 01:33 PM

maby some of us is a bit picky?????u think


Not sure if you are saying you are picky and I'm not your cup of tea or if you are saying I'm being picky, I don't feel I am asking too much. I have my wants down because I assumed it would give men an idea of what they should at least be range of.

I don't want someone that will sponge off me. I would like them to be able to read the back of a cereal box and carry on a civilized conversation. I would like someone that loves to laugh as much as I do.

Too me the package (the outter body) doesn't matter, it's the gift inside (heart, soul, compassion). Is that too picky?

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Sun 07/27/08 01:22 PM

You may also want to try increasing your limit on the milage that someone can contact you. There just may be someone willing to move to that area for you if you are not planning to relocate where they are. But being friends first is a big step, and putting limits for friends lowers your chances. JMOflowerforyou


I changed my mileage choice to any distance. If someone wants to relocate that would be great. But I couldn't relocate unless they would be willing to support me. I have a great job and my family here...all but one daughter and her family and they are in Louisiana.

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Sun 07/27/08 01:18 PM

just so you know...you are not alone...

i have asked myself this question alot the last few years...

i have been told many things like: you have to love yourself first... keep busy...fill your time with what you do best... i have worked on self love and know that i do love myself (but of course with humility and quietly)...and im working keeping busy...reading/working on my art/keeping house/...but there is a hole...when the evening comes...when the stars twinkle...

i am missing real people in my life...is this wrong? am i odd to feel this way? i am constantly told to move on and forget it...but there is an emptiness that doesnt feel so good...do tell...is this what you are feeling too?




That's exactly what I'm feeling, Indi. Also, it seems the ones I do meet think I have slut wrote on my forehead. I'm not a prude but I'm not cheap either. I want to save myself for true love. Men should think about wanting sex with so many women, what if they fall in love with a woman that has been with a lot of men?

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Sat 07/26/08 12:08 PM
I'm strong, yeah it will hurt but please tell me why I can't find someone to love me? See my picture and read my profile, is there something I can do to improve on the profile? Am I just so butte ugly no one wants to even look at me?

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Mon 04/28/08 05:59 PM
I'd like to hear what Jerry does too. I've been learning all kind s of new things since my divorce, one being riding a motorcycle..I want to go white water rafting. I'm 55 and didn't get to do those things when I was younger since I married at 17 and raised 4 kids.

By the way, I have 6 grandkids and they are a lot to keep up with too. Hey Jerry, can I come and follow you around? or will that be the other way, you following me what time I'm not dragging you behind me.

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Sun 04/27/08 04:42 PM
Actually I was just about to invite Jerry to my house to a party but since it's his bedtime...maybe later, Jer. Good night.

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Sun 04/27/08 11:22 AM
I've actually got someone from here that lives about 30 miles from me and tell me they are looking for long term. They have been to visit me 3 times now since last Sunday and we actually have dates and a great time. I'm hoping he's as serious as I am about a LTR but I've been burned so many times I'm holding my breath wondering when I don't hear from him for a while.

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Sun 04/27/08 11:16 AM
All this noise drove him off. He's gone back to his nice quiet corner of his lonely house with the shades drawn.

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Sun 04/27/08 11:12 AM
Harley's are nice, but butte jewelry....lol. J/K

I have a yamaha v-start 650. Any bike is nice with a good looking man on it.

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Sun 04/27/08 11:09 AM

A loaf of...a jug of wine...& ???????


I think that would be a wheel of aged cheese, Sage.

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Sun 04/27/08 11:04 AM
Sage will never know how many licks it takes to get to the middle. He will bite first.

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Sun 04/20/08 06:55 AM
I almost did that Cat...thank goodness I woke up in time. This guy was telling me all I wanted to hear including the M word....then after I changed my mind and told him, he accused me of some terrible things that weren't true. I realized he was JUST LIKE MY EX. Except, he was an alcoholic and biggest goal in life was to get on SSI and VA benefits and not have to work. At least the ex works and doesn't drink.

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Sat 04/19/08 06:50 PM
Has Peter, Paul and Mary been picked?

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Sat 04/19/08 06:38 PM
I would show you some legs but we can't post pictures on here, oldsage

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Sat 04/19/08 06:24 PM
Have I really reached the age that:

I had a face lift done last week...now my eyes are in the back of my head....laugh

Got a boob lift and now have to spread them apart just to breath.

Went to have a tummy tuck done but the doctor couldn't find my belly button to mark the surgical area.

I got a tattoo of the Titanic put over my left breast when I was 20, but I don't have it anymore, it sank.

Called the hospital to find out where my heart was, the nurse said under my left breast. Tried to shoot myself in the heart and blew my left knee cap off.