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Sun 12/02/12 11:19 PM
pressure

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Sun 12/02/12 11:15 PM
chocolate cupcake

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Sun 12/02/12 11:12 PM
Hamilton, NZ

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Sun 12/02/12 11:10 PM
A really good burger

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Sun 12/02/12 08:47 PM
Jade

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Sun 12/02/12 05:08 PM
Nice friend sad2 ... omg t@ would be a horrible scenario 2 go through. A true friend would not even comtemplate doing such a thing... oh yeah, ditch the bf/gf & find someone with morals.

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Sun 12/02/12 04:24 PM
Dear Girls (from us guys)...

*Don't assume that guys won't care where you are, because we do.
It makes us feel secure to know that our girlfriends aren't off flirting with guys we've never heard of.

*Also, don't talk about your ex-boyfriends.
We never have, nor ever will respect or like them, nor do we want to hear about them.
When you do, you're asking your boyfriend to be jealous.
You're asking your boyfriend to lose trust.

*On that, don't hump everything that walks into the room.
We don't care if you talk to other guys.
We don't care if you're friends with other guys.
But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.
It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.

*Also, when we tell you you're pretty beautiful gorgeous cute stunning, we freaking mean it.
Don't tell us we're wrong.
We'll stop trying to convince you.
The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.
Yeah, you can quote me.

*Don't be mad when we hold the door open.
Smile and say "thank you."
Let us pay for you.
Don't "feel bad."
We enjoy doing it.
It's expected.
Smile and say - everybody together now - "thank you."

*Kiss us when no one's watching.
If you kiss us when you know nobody's looking we'll be more impressed.

*You don't have to get dressed up for us.
If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have, put on every kind of makeup you own.
We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are.

*Don't flirt with guys when we're not around.
We'll find out. Trust us.
We have eyes everywhere.
And when we find out, we're pissed.
Not necessarily with the guys you flirted with, more-so with you.

*Don't take everything we say seriously.
Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.
Don't get angry easily.
Stop using magazinesmedia as your bible.

*Don't talk about how hot Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt is in front of us.
It's boring, and we don't care.
You have girlfriends for that.

*Whatever happened to the word "handsome"?
Why does everything have to be "hotsexy"?
I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey handsome!" instead of "Hey baby stud cutie sexy" or whatever else you can think of.
Claiming girls or guys to be "hot" shows immaturity.

**Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, don't wait for him to change.
Ditch his sorry, disgrace-to-the-male-population ***, and find someone who will treat you with utter respect.
Someone who will honor your morals.
Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.


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Sun 12/02/12 03:39 PM

flowerforyou my question is based on flowers and small gestures. What is popular opinion on such things?




Small gestures I feel are fine... however opening car doors is a little OTT.

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Sun 12/02/12 02:47 PM

basically, if she is changing her mind about you, the relationship, etc....then she is bored with you. It's the same with guys. People who are happy together stay together. Is that simple.


Bored spock maybe... Men & women have diffrent needs, if those needs are not being met then one or the other will look else where. Relationships take time... spose it depends on 'how much time' one is willing to put into a relationship.
"People who are happy together stay together" :smile: Agree

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Sun 12/02/12 02:30 PM
Edited by notsoincognito on Sun 12/02/12 02:31 PM

A woman that they can feel safe with to discuss what they really feel. Most women do not know how to create that environment, and if he cannot say what he really wants to her he will never be satisfied in that relationship. He will have to look elsewhere to fulfill the needs he is not comfortable communicating to that woman.


Some women want & feel the same way

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Sun 12/02/12 02:02 PM

I like to lead the scammers on, and then ask them for money. laugh
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Sun 12/02/12 01:59 PM
Edited by notsoincognito on Sun 12/02/12 02:24 PM


Date failed to mention he still lives at home with mum & dad... 30+ 'really'


huh Is doing so illegal where you live?

Not illegal.. for me personally I would prefer my date to be independant & have a home/flat of his own... personal preference

P.S
I have my own home

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Sun 12/02/12 01:16 AM
Date failed to mention he still lives at home with mum & dad... 30+ 'really'

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Sun 12/02/12 12:19 AM
Ringworm

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Sun 12/02/12 12:13 AM
rang

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Sat 12/01/12 11:41 PM
Just a touch - Keith Sweat

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Sat 12/01/12 11:38 PM
Yolk

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Sat 12/01/12 11:37 PM
wing

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Sat 12/01/12 11:35 PM
Reticulocyte

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Sat 12/01/12 11:31 PM
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