There are definitely gentlemen here. I have run into many of them since I've been here. I will admit I waded through more crude comments and bad attitudes to find them...but they were worth it!

Tip...I met moat of them in the forums.

We do?

More importantly...do you have a light?

*smacks bubble gum* Yeah...its just like...there are all these guys here who say they want to marry a non-smoker.

*blows pink bubble and sucks it back in without missing a chew*

So, like...I don't smoke right? Not one proposal yet! It's like..."HELLOOO!" *rolls eyes*

So...I know just what you mean dude! I think I'm gonna start smoking again...ya know?

I think it's pretty easy to fall in love with an idea. If someone you're chatting with online seems to mold to that idea...then it's also easy to believe you are falling in love with him/her....if you're not conscious of it.

You may feel a level of comfort after talking with someone online for a long period and become less conscience of the things you really can't know about the each other just through conversation. Even if they have been completely honest with you about everything under the sun, there is too much about someone that can only be gauged through automatic responses, facial expressions, eye contact and physical reactions to one another in the flesh.

Keeping this in mind will allow your heart to stay open to the posibilities without allowing your desires to take over your sensibility.

I have a special pen pal here who I enjoy chatting with more than anything I've experienced in a long time. But until we meet and really get to know each other eye to eye,.we can only be special friends and pen pals to each other.. It's nice to fantasize there could one day be more, and flirting with him is more fun than I ever remembered it being, but we also have to keep it real and accept that it's possible nothing will come of it when we meet.

I guess I could have gone with...if wishes were fishes....

I would grab his azz one last time...just in case we don't make it out alive.

Required to be home by 6pm sounds like a work release program. Kidding.

I want my guy to reach whatever earning goal he desires and aspires to. I also want him to get out and have fun...sometimes with me too.

Having spent most of my life single, I've had about enough of sexless life already thanks.

Halleluiah?

There are women who do that. It all depends on what sex means to you really. For some it's just a recreation and for others it's something only to be shared with someone they care for romantically. There are still those who believe it's a sacred act between a married couple.

To some sex is weighed by religious beliefs while others balance it with their own self worth and reverence for their partner.

However you feel about sex, it's best to choose a partner with similar feelings about it.

I think that's a matter of human nature. Most bullies don't pick on the biggest toughest guy in the room. Same principle...just larger scale.

Hooker?

Does that mean that if she pays you will dump her? Is it really that offensive?

When I dated, I used to go out with enough to cover the check just in case. I have even offered to pay or split the check just to make sure it's clear to him that I'm not dating him for dinner...especially if he seems to have a preference for fine dining or eating out frequently. Still...I've never actually paid for a date before...but have whipped out the cash for ice cream before he had time to realize I meant to treat. It didn't seem to bother him.

Not really...she's too busy making money.

Seriously though...why would a woman have any feelings at all about the fact that what she does for a living pays better...or that she's engaged in a field she's passionate about and works more?

Why would this bother a man either? If he's jealous that she is more satisfied in her career...he will not improve his own lot by putting her down. If a man loves a woman, he wants to see her in a fulfilling life. So what if she makes good money...isn't that a good thing?

You meant whipped cream....right Goof?

RIGHT Goof!?

Goof?

Why are you spreading these lies?

We're simply just that HOT and you know it!

Awww...screw all that confusion and go on a picnic. It's more fun anyway.

Only if he loves, respects and understands her. It's really that simple.

I might dig him...a shallow grave.

In a word...balanced.

In many words...what I mean by balanced.

Kind but not a pushover. Sweet but not a sap. Generous but not a sell out. Intelligent without pretention. Honest without brutality. Confidence without conceit. Has sex appeal without vanity. Has plenty of love for one, but only enough need for one too.