I wonder if some ladies would weigh in on this so I can try to understand. Because I have to confess, I might just be socially autistic and unable to see something that’s obvious to everyone else. So here’s the question...

Why is it that every time I’m trading a few messages with a lady and it seems like there’s a chance we just might get acquainted, and then I ask her what she’s passionate about in life, she stops talking to me?

This has happened probably ten or twelve times now.

To me it seems like a harmless question and a good way to learn a lot about a person. Could this question actually be scaring women off or is something else going on? Do women just not want relationships of the heart any more? If love in the world has really grown that cold it would be hard to imagine what life would even be worth.