I would like to get both the male and female perspective on this.

We all know guys generally like to cut to the chase. So it's understandable when it happens, but what do you say when you like him and you don't want to totally shut him down, you just want him to ease up a little?

I don't see it as men and women.

I see it as individuals.

Yeah...some guys aren't good at dealing with the ladies.

Some women make it hard as hell to deal with them.

The whole "all guys only want sex" is as wrong as "all women are gold diggers".

We can all gripe about how men can't communicate.

We can all gripe about women being borderline crazy.

The thing we should all remember.....

You women are settling for the sex crazed losers with a speech impediment.

Us guys settle for neurotic chicks who put out at the drop of a hat then flip out when you can't read their mind.

The guys ain't the problem.
The girls ain't the problem.

The guys and gals who settled for losers then don't understand that they are the common denominator in their failed love life.....

Those people are the problem.

If I find a dance partner, I will share him with you!
C'mon guys - who can shake their groove thing... I mean dance!!!

Have I found my dance partner?

Every little girl wants a pony

For on-line only:
I think people realize they can be anyone or anything they wish to be. It's like a cyber-self can be whatever or whomever you choose yourself to be. There could be several reasons such as low self-esteem, a sense of power, make-believe, etc based on their real reasons for being on the net! Dishonesty plays a factor as well when they are pretending with someone who is trying to be real and honest!
Just some of my thoughts.

What do you think is a healthy amount of sex in a relationship. Say for the sake of this topic, at 3 months into a relationship, 6 months 1 year, 5 years and 10 years.