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Sun 12/05/21 07:37 AM
What is wrong with repeating what is in a profile and also in a conversation? You cannot think of something to say to a girl because you already mentioned it in a profile? I give up! I tried to help you but you are unwilling to take advice given to you from others so why ask for a profile rating?


BTW, you didn't give constructive criticism, or a proven template that works to get IRL dates

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Sun 12/05/21 07:35 AM
What is wrong with repeating what is in a profile and also in a conversation? You cannot think of something to say to a girl because you already mentioned it in a profile? I give up! I tried to help you but you are unwilling to take advice given to you from others so why ask for a profile rating?


I can, but that's the idea of a normal conversation especially online you wrap it up as quick as possible so you can talk IRL with nuance and emotion. When I say creative you verse stuff they haven't thought of and you get " I never thought of that" or you sound like a cop with all the questions you ask

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Sat 12/04/21 08:09 PM
The About You section should be just that, About You. Write about yourself, what you like to do, what you are looking for in a lady. If the lady sees something that peaks her interest then she may contact you.


That's the issue, you're repeating yourself, with the conversation.

That's the conundrum. I could write pages in detail what I'm looking for but would we talk about then?

Remember, you want to wrap it up as quick as possible so you can videochat or meet in person for the date then really go in depth about yourself and show your personality.

Thus, I'm asking for constructive criticism so I won't reveal too much


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Sat 12/04/21 06:03 PM
Ok, what's a proper template outline?

If there's something to ask to expound on, it's simple "tell me your story" should be asked

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Sat 12/04/21 04:08 PM
In other words, there is no point to a profile?? Cos that's what you're saying.
A profile is a short write up to attract attention from the right women for you, to flog yourself in the 'market'.
One does hope that 1 or 2 paragraphs of text that make up a profile all a man has to talk about?

As for what you got now... it actually makes it worse.
The net is full with info on how to have an effective profile, and why. Might pay off to read up a bit.


too a point yes, because if you add too much info then there's nothing to talk about.

All the basic talking points are in a profile, hence you want to add as little info as possible to get across your a real person who doesn't use short responses because it's already in the profile

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Sat 12/04/21 08:59 AM
I redid it, but it's slightly subversive because I don't want to add too much. This is due to having topics to discuss instead of writing everything which hinders the flow of a natural conversation

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Sat 12/04/21 08:09 AM
commence the anxiety riddled approval confirmation. :grin: