You sure don't like fifty Green eyes.

Hello Greeneyes, what kept you so long? Pleased to see you in the Over 50's. I'm Ray. Be warned though, where I am, it's Monday afternoon

Well welcome and Happy BD
I,m Betty , nice to meet you.

you look hot how are you
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I'm great thanks.. how are you?

Is it my appearence or my profile?? I'm so confused because I don't want a relationship with an older man. I find it kind of insulting....do they think I look their age??
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NO they want to act yours.. Thats all older men want now days young girls to keep their youth..

You look ready to rumble :-)
Happy Halloween back at you.

I don't agree. I don't look at myself as older and it is hard. I can find a man to be with yes but I want someone I click with. the heart thing.
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ME too I think hey are scared of us LOL

I agree. Some there are different situations for everybody. Not everyone can play hockey & stuff like that!

JMHO ... you will never find love.

so stop looking for it

nobody can find love ... that is why the ancients devised Cupid.
Love must find you.
So you must make yourself available

love what you are and what is in your world and one day you will find that love has found you.

Funny, there was just a program on tv about this subject tonight.. Very interesting...a 73 yr old lady in NYC was going out with a 40 yr old and they had a great time and were going out again.. I always tell the young guys "thanks" but I don't date younger than my kids.. I would feel like I was dating my grandsons friends..lol

I don't think we're old & jaded. We're only middle aged by today's standards & anyway, you're only as old as you feel. It seems to me that most men just want the Barbie Doll type women. That's just my opinion since that's what I've found.
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I feel the same way..

Hard to find love!!??

Well. It wasn't hard for Me at all

please women don't get all shook up and mad and start blasting me with harsh words. The following is only my opinion

I repeat: ONLY MY OPINION!!!!! (ya might agree-ya might not)


I notice a lot of man bashing. Alot of bitterness because of past relationships

throw it away!!! Bashing? Why?? It doesnt make sense to me. One women does it and others flock like seagulls. The bitterness? It's unattractive and men are really turned off by it. They come out and say it but noone listens

love is found by people who love themselves and are happy and show it to the world. Men are attracted to women who they see are strong -threw their baggage away and march on with confidence-a sense of humor-and their feminitity in tact

this goes for men too!

I know I'm no authority on the subject but there really is love for everyone out there ya know

maybe stop wanting this and stop wanting that and giving every guy a fair chance?

Even the "nice" ones that are always getting a bad rap?

REMEMBER: this is just my most humble of opinions

I think the men in our age group are more interested in dating women 10-20 years younger than themselves, making them fool themselves that they are that young also. Unfortunately I would rather date someone closer to my age, but only get interest mostly from men 10-15 years my senior. That bums me out, i would just like to be around someone who we have the same frame of reference. When I was younger, wasn't interested in dating someone that much older than me and still aren't. Oh well...their loss .