First up I do NOT want pity, I am fine with who I am, and find pity regarding my disability kind of like an insult.

I want to know if it's worth me trying to date.

I was stupid and became disabled 8 or so years ago. Since then I have been single, I've tried numerous dating sites and only get messages from scammers, minus two times.

Now my question is, being disabled and unable to ever work again, should I bother trying to date via online dating? Is it even fair to the other person?

I honestly want to know, even if the answer isn't what most would want to hear.

And please no pity, I am okay with my body and who I am. All pity does is make me feel like I'm less of a person.