He has taken care of me with strep throat...
When im having an emotional day... yes he takes me shopping ot to a movie..
holds me when we sleep (no we dont live together)
When hes gone ..always calls to tell me goodnight... and so on...
Hell, he even goes shopping for jeans with me...
we like all the same stuff..
and get along great.
I know we have a connection we have talked about it.
I know hes afraid of being shipped out again...
we talk about the future and kids... we just havent come out with the word...
are we both afraid??

he sounds hott too....lol

Ok... Im gonna make this short...
I have been dating this guy for a while now... hes amazing. I am head over heals for him. I knew after the first date i would fall hard. we are 7 months in and what im wandering is ... when is it time for the "L" word guys. I Love him and I know it....but i dont :scare" him. HELP

NOW, NOW, ...I KNOW THE LADIES A DROWLING OVER THIS ONE... HELL I AM!

HMMM, WHAT WE ARE REALLY LOOKING FOR...? WELL THATS EASY, THE BOARD TELLS IT ALL.. THE LADIES ARE HERE LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP, AND THE GUYS ARE HERE LOOKING FOR A HOOKUP.
OKAY...MY BESTFRIEND (A GUY WHOM I MET ON THIS SITE) ....I WAS AT HIS HOUSE THE OTHER NIGHT AND WE WERE TALKING ABOUT THE LUCK WE HAVE BEEN HAVING ON HERE... A STORY FROM HIM.... HE MEETS A GIRL (WHOM WAS LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP, CHRISTIAN GIRL SO IT SAYS...NOT LOOKING FOR SEX) THEY MET AT HIS HOUSE, TALKED, AND HOOKED UP THAT VERY NIGHT. NOT THE ONLY ONE ITS HAPPENED WITH. SHE CALLS, AND CALLS, SO HE HAD A FRIEND CALL HER AND TELL HER HE HAD A GF AND TO STOP CALLING... SHE CALLS A LIL LATER AND TELLS HIM SHE CANT GET HIM OUT OF HER MIND...BLAH, BLAH, BLAH...
I JUST DONT GET IT..
WE SAY WE WANT ONE THING AND THEN SHOW A PERSON SOMETHING COMPLETLEY DIFFERENT.
WHY CANT WE ALL BE COMPLETLEY HONEST.
HERE LET ME START............ I AM LOOKING FOR A COMPLETELY COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP... ONE THAT "COULD" GO SOMEWHERE IN THE FUTURE, HOWEVER I WANT THE PASSION AND THE SEX OF THE MISTRESS... ANYONE UNDERSTAND WHERE IM COMING FROM?

GUYS DONT PRETEND TO ...WHATEVER, OR LEAD A GIRL ON ...LETTING THEM THINK YOU REALLY LIKE THEM WHEN YOUR JUST LOOKING FOR A PIECE OF ASS...SERIOUSLY ... ITS RUDE, AND CHILDISH. I THINK SOMEOF US NEED A BACKBONE AND OTHERS NEED CONFIDENCE.

MY OPINION...NOT THAT IT MATTERS.

<----- OKC GIRL.... AND I ALSO HAVENT FOUND A "GOOD" GUY . THERE SLIM PICKINS ANYMORE IT SEEMS...

SINGLE....

LOL.. SORRY I USUALLY TYPE IN CAPS...IM NOT REALLY SURE WHY.
BUT.......
IN REGARD TO PICS....IF YOU SEND ME AN EMAIL WITH NO PIC ILL JUST DELETE IT. I FEEL IF I CAN POST A PIC AND YOU SEE WHAT YOUR GETTING THEN I WANT THE SAME IN RETURN. NO OFFENSE. JUST MY OPINION. ATTRACTION IS AT LEAST HALF THE REASON I WILL TALK TO SOMEONE. NOW ON THE OTHERHAND IVE HAD A FEW EMAILS FROM REALLY GOOD LOOKING GUYS WHO WHEN I READ THEIR PROFILE I THOUGHT NO WAY... THANKS BUT IM NOT INTERESTED GOOD LUCK IN YOUR SEARCH.
I DONT WANT TO BE ONE OF THOSE MEAN PPL WHO ARE RUDE ABOUT THE SITUATION . BUT I REALLY DO WANT A RECENT PIC...SHEEESH!

SO I HAD BEEN CHATTING, EMAILING, TEXT, AND HAVING PHONE CONVERSATINS WITH SOMEONE FOR ABOUT 2 MONTHS. WE FINALLY DECIDED TO MEET AND HAVE DINNER. ME BEING ME I WAS FUNNING LATE ABOUT 10 MINS. I GET TO "THE CHOOSEN PLACE" HE HAD BEEN SEATED ... I TOLD THE GIRL AT THE DOOR WHO I WAS LOOKING FOR AND SHE TOOK ME TO THE TABLE. AS I CAME AROUND THE CORNER I REALIZED WHICH TABLE SHE WAS TAKING ME TO. I WAS A LITTLE FLOORED. THE PERSON IN WHICH I WAS HAVING DINNER,,,BEEN CHATTING...AND TALKING TO LOOKED NOTHING LIKE THE PICTURES I HAD SEEN IN THE PROFILE... WHY DO PPL DO THIS? HAS THIS HAPPENED TO YOU? WHAT DO YOU DO? I WAS NICE HAD DINNER (MADE HIM LET ME PAY MY OWN WAY)AND FINISHED THE EVENING. THE WHOLE TIME RATHER PISSED THAT I HAD BEEN KIND OF LIED TO. OR I FELT I HAD. IS IT SO MUCH TO ASK FOR PPL TO UP DATE THEIR PICS????