This to me sounds like you are trying your best not to offend in the best way you can. Identifying people by race is done obviously by visual identification and using this as a reason to dislike what you see and make a broad judgement casting your opinion on all that look that way is racist as we all know. Using your vision to identify culture by colour is 1. a super power or 2. racist.
I am happy you chose to enter this discussion, it shows the willingness to change. I hope. I think we all have our preconceived ideas of beauty or our taste. Think about the music I enjoy and how a song can move you in every way. Now imagine listening to one of those songs (heavy metal is my go to) on a day you need the comfort, support, bravery etc and someone walks in the room and insists it's nothing but noise and turns it off. Then asks if I'm a Satanist and hate everything.
That person just showed me that to them everything fits into a box with a label. Heavy metal goes into a box that is hate and satanic and this is probably how the rest of his idea of how life can be judged. Don't fall into this and if this is how you were taught to think, do yourself a favour and stop yourself from this way interaction with people. Being African does not mean you a Brown or black person anymore. I'm African and white.Been a White person does not mean you American or European or pure evil. You also seem to think that no two cultures are compatible. This might cause you to have a few discussions about things that will enrich this relationship or find out your culture sucks and adopt or adapt a new one. I'm going on a lot so to close my point. YES colour does matter it's foolish to say otherwise. Should it??? NO. because judgement by colour is stupid and it's a stupidity that we have been taught by our in my case racist white people and I choose not to teach that crap to my kids. We can choose change and it starts with blue eyes. Everyone with blue eyes should be thrown in jail because dumb reasons. The last bit is a joke but now you can see how using colour to judge is F.. ING stupid. Love not hate exceptance of difference is our strength. Love you all and have a great day.

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Dammit~~ and all this started over my meme about butter my buns and call me a biscuit. Which Bottail responded to then Mo with the which I'm not sure but was to Bobtail's response.. which then he asked Mo if he was jealous..

First of all I'm the one that should have responded with if ya smack my buns I'll deck your arse..

But to ask for one to apologize when in the first place you were out of line...yea will not happen..We keep it clean in here. I should have thought twice about the meme..

All I can say is everyone needs to step back the Pub is to joke around, tell about your day, pitch in with things to do whatever..

We need to learn to bring others up not down.. All need to know that Women/Men are equal within our thoughts here.. We are not here to argue or cause issues.. Just to carry on a conversation ..

If one can not keep it clean and be civil then yes they do need to move on.. Just saying lets chill tequila shots on the bar..

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Ditto on that.

And people ask for ratings on blank profiles because they either are seeking an ego boost on their looks, or think that their looks alone will make grown men drool or young women drop their knickers.