i had my daughter
when i was 19
and i had my son
4yrs later ( i was 23)

i actually had abortion
when i was 16 which i still
regret doing but at
the time it seem to
had been right

i gor pg 2months before i
got pg with my daughter
and i had a miscarrage

and i had a miscarrage 6months
before i got pg with my son

the miscarrage i had before i got
pg with my daughter
i had a severe bladder and yeast infection


the miscarrage
that i had before
i got pg with my son
i lost it the day aftr
i found out i was pg
not sure what the problem
was


im thinking
sense i have a birthdefect called
lawerence beild moon syndrome
it effects each person
in a differnt way
but with a female they request
for you not to get pg
well geeze i didnt even know
i had this birthdefect untill 8yrs ago
so most likey the reason
i lost the 2 would had been related
to this birthdefect

I admit when I was young, it was crammed in my head that the next step to adulthood is having children.
Age and experience with my own children has straightened this wrongful thinking! Lol and allowed me to not cram this way of thinking in my kids heads.

I'm sorry, but that seems not only contradictory, but extremely biased.

First of all, hats off to all single full-time fathers out there...some of us single moms know what you are going through.

I have always found single fathers more attractive than single men w/o children.

Single fathers have given up any freedom they had to care for and raise their child/ren. The ones I have been privileged to meet and get to know are extremely hard working, sensitive to their children's needs, and are actually willing to talk to someone to get to know them first rather than trying to get the perspective mate in the sack first.

So I say, WAY TO GO DADS