Thanks all!
One guy told me, what he looks for is if there is some kind of
bonding with her. If she is too open at first, then that makes him feel
uncomfortable, he told me just to be myself.
MEN...does it make you want to run, when a woman is straight forward????

Thanks King
Good advice!
ANYMORE????

Please help me understand what men are really looking for in a real
relationship. What do you guys look for in a woman,at the first meet?
I'm sooo confused!

Hey Sandy, I feel you should meet. BUT my experience is that when a man
starts talking sexy to ya over the phone and start calling you pet
names(Baby etc.) BEAWARE!
Yes, meet somewhere public, I have had a friend or family memeber call
me on my cell, about half hour into the first meet, just to have a
getaway if needed. And please be careful! There are alot of strange
people out there, and they tell you what they think you want to hear and
then***on you. But there are good ones out there also. So go for it!
Girl!

LOL, cute and some truth in it!

RED, I hear your anger, I can feel what you say.
I used to feel like you do now,and I have no idea what happened, BUT all
those ugly feelings, and the hurt and pain, have gone! Why? Don't really
understand, but I do beleive that there is a God , and He will never
give us more then we can handle. My sister died at a young age of
cancer, so why did God take her? She had 2 small children, husband. so
why? But ya know, we will never know why. We just have to beleive, and
thats where trust and faith come into play.

Yes, there are so many people out there, and we all want to be able to
trust, but sometimes sadly, trust can be bad...

He may have some mental issues, in the mind??
Just sit him down and talk to him, when the mood is right, not when
there's tention in the air.
I have a friend, that married for one year, and not yet have had any
intimate with her new husband, he has mental issues, but won't do
anything about it. So, all's ya can do is try .
Good Luck, girl!

I have a story to share with you all.
I met this man on POF date site. We dated for awhile, until he had
threaten to kill me, because I wasn't letting him control me anymore.
Police were involved..anyway, when I did a backround check on him, it
turned out that he had been convicted of many thing's, the last one was
burglery, did one year in prison, 3 years probation. Then to come to
find out that he goes by 5 different names, and SS no.
The point here is for male and female, BEWARE! If you have red flags
about someone, it's your right to do a back round check, to keep your
self safe. We are all here for one reason or another, and hoping to find
some type of happiness in this world, so let's help each other to stay
safe!

Hey Bill,
Love the tiger picture! Awesome!!!
My good morning to all

Feelings from the heart.
They are real, so real!
How we feel, what we do.
So, then why do we hurt?
Rejection is painful, so painful.
I have feeling's, you have feelings.
So, why do we hurt each other?
Feeling's are free, so free!
Let's fly, and be free!~
No more pain, no more hurt!
Let's just love each other.
So, let's touch, let's feel
the beauty we can bring.
It's all free! It's like the
water flowing down the brook,
So natural, so beautiful!
No pain, no hurt, only Love.

I know how this feels, Sherrie!
It gets better in time........!
If ya ever need to vent, i'm here for ya! REALLY!

Hey girl, I know just how ya feel!

"If you have never loved before"
Where do we go from here?
Love is a gift from God.
It's like feeling the wind on your face,
so free, and beautiful.
It's like the air we breathe,it's all around us!
Be still, wait, it's coming.
Feel it? Reach for it, it's here.
It's all around us, like the pedal on a Rose,
So free and beautiful.
If you have never loved before,
Take it, it's free!
Open your heart, feel it? it's here.
Take it, run, it's from God.
It's alive and it's waiting,
waiting for you!
So, my friend, take it!
If you have never loved before,
Now is the time, it's free, take it!

Hey,
Welcome! I am new also...
So, good luck in your search!

Hey everyone, I need some help, looking for friends....any idea's on
here? Just started this, and no idea what to do next.