Please help me understand what men are really looking for in a real
relationship. What do you guys look for in a woman,at the first meet?
I'm sooo confused!

just be yourself. not every man is looking for the same thing and by
being yourself you will be comfortable, happy and not confused lol. you
sound like a good person from your profile and i'm sure that someone is
looking for someone like you.

hi king.... yep i agree with breeze... just be yourself.

That's how I got you sweetie

morning hun... yep thats how ya got me hooked on u....

Morning baby, You were fantastic last night.

wink wink

u r the best!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

"Blushes" Thank you


SSSSHHHHHHHHHH Don't tell anybody.

i wont.... be back after while...

Ok, my love, be careful

Thanks King
Good advice!
ANYMORE????

honesty,and a good personality.thats my opinion

Got an "honest" picture, there, Good?

Men want the same things women want to an extent.
Trust,fidelity,intelect,conversation,love,attention,honesty,respect,love,honor
just to name a few

Hummm yeah but it just comes down to finding the one that wants the same
thing you do and that special one you click with for even if they want
those things don't mean you will get along with them. Its like finding
a needle in a HAY STACK but .... once you do that hay seems like silk to
ya and it is smooth sailing. Okay maybe that is a bit much but hey it
takes work even after you find them to keep things going smooth but it
can happen. Until then I will keep dreaming.

For when we quit dreaming we quit living!

here's what i look for, good conversation but don't chew my ear off, ask
me about myself cus it's not all about you, and lets just feel if there
is any chemistry or sparks, cus if there is it will come natrualy

oh and did i mention....be pleasing to the eye...250 pounds dose not = a
few extra pounds

Hey now even that is pleasing to some eyes :)

a persons heart is as important as looks,,,attractions...

if you feel it...go for it...if not...go for somebody else...
just be true to yourself and them...

and a new photo will help folks warm up to you sooner...

Good Luck,Cuda58!!!

Hi Cuda, about your question "What do you guys look for in a woman,at
the first meet?".. Personally, since I have already SEEN a picture (or I
wouldn't be at a meeting) All I am looking for is someone to get along
with, laugh with, to see if we have general things in common with to see
if I can build a friendship with HER.


**VERY IMPORTANT** On the FIRST MEET (or Date) I am NOT looking for:

* My Future Wife
* A life long commitment
* The mother of my future kids
* Pretty much any commitment at all
* To see if I drive an expensive enough car for her
* To see if I live in the right neighborhood
* To see if I make enough money to support her
* To see if I'd be a good father for her children
* To go on a date with her children
* To see if I fit in with her friends
* To see if I'm the right material for her family
* To see if She's the right material for my family
* Someone to unload their hate for the whole male race
* Someone that is so vunerable that I'd crush her if it doesn't work out


My first meeting is about Her & Me to see if we get along in person
(Period, end of story)....