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Topic:
How Long After A Break Up?
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I think it depends on the situation. I think you have to
ask yourself a few questions before you start dating again. Are you over this person? Even if you broke up with her, did you allow yourself enough time to get over the break up? You don't want to end a relationship and then decide 2 weeks later that you compare every woman to her. You have to make sure that you past relationship is done and over with before you even think of starting a new one. I was actually in a relationship for about 7 years and it took me about 2 years to want to date again. I wanted to make sure I was completely over everything and not be unfair to anyone else. Only YOU will know when the right time is. Your heart will know! Good Luck!!! |
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Oh you are right, I don't think you ever stop being a parent.
I also have a 25 year old, so I know that it gets worse as they get older. I guess I just got all freaked out because my baby is going to college and to see him act like a young man..I had so many mixed emotions. I was very proud but yet inside I was screaming NO! I could tell that he was freaking out and he was very nervous so that did not help me at all. I told him that I would do all I could to help him if he ever has a problem. He took some of the classes that I already have taken. Makes me want to go back and finish my career!!! |
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Topic:
is stalking bad?
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Hope I'll never get stalked. But should I know for certain someone's talking me...I'll walk right into a gun shop and buy a gun (and lots of ammos)...hoping the stalker saw me do it. Then...IT'S GAME ON!!! LOL!  good luck with that, stalking is legal as long as its in public,, not legal to cause harm to the stalker though,,,, Wow...let me get this straight...you thought I was serious about purchasing a gun if I knew I was being stalked???  Honestly, it is no laughing matter. I DID BUY A GUN AND I AM READY TO USE IT IF I HAVE TO. I DON'T THINK PEOPLE REALIZE HOW SCARY IT IS TO BE STALKED. I have taken gun classes and there is no way that I would NOT shoot to kill. He will never stalk me again. |
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 When you are here you can use all the labels you want. When you are around the lady's do not label them, I was just giving you advice!! 
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Topic:
sexual identity
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God is a good and loving God, he will love you no matter what.
Only YOU can decide when to tell your family. Honestly, I bet they already know. Do you have a sister or brother that you are really close to that you trust? If so, maybe talk to them? That is how one of my family members came out. Just remember as Lady Gaga says..BABY WE WERE BORN THIS WAY!!! Good luck
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Edited by
unsure
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Sat 07/13/13 11:33 PM
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You guys are going to scare that poor boy to death.
If you like older women...just go for it!!! But do NOT call them MILFS or COUGARS..I hated when my son actually told his friend to leave the house before he killed him because he called me a MILF. Sorry but that is so disrespectful!!! |
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Topic:
Age gaps... opinions
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Anyone you date has baggage!! If it does not bother
you then why should you really care what anyone else thinks? If you are afraid that your friends are going to judge you then maybe you need new friends? If you don't date the ones that you like, you might be letting a good one go!!! |
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Topic:
Are you afraid to die?
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Am I afraid to die? I had cancer once and I survived that,
but I did prepare everything just in case I did die. I was not afraid for myself but I was worried about my boys because they were still in school and they would have been up-rooted and would had to move with their dad. I am actually looking forward to seeing my Dad again and all of my loved ones. I have 4 friends that just passed away since January so I have lots of catching up to do with them. I am hoping that God makes my passing easy, but they say that God doesn't give us more then we can handle. I guess when it is our time to leave this life, we join our loved ones and start our new journey with them.
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I went with my son to sign up for his college
classes, I must admit I am a proud mom BUT once I got in there, I almost had a panic attack. I guess it just hit me that my youngest son is actually old enough to go to college and I am now finished doing what I am suppose to do. BUT I got so nervous and thought OH WOW, this is really happening. I honestly wanted to cry and say NO YOU ARE NOT READY TO DO THIS. I think I am really worried about the field he is going in and what he wants to do in the end. He is going for Criminal Justice and he wants to be a Police Officer. If anyone has ever heard of South Bend, Indiana then you know there is a shooting just about every day..how scary is that? To think that my son is going to have to deal with that....yep, scares the heck out of me!!!! |
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Topic:
is mingle realy work
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I think it can work out IF you are willing to
move. It seems like the interesting people are far away but I am just on here looking for friends. If you want friends, this is a great place to make lots of friends. |
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Divorced women. They obviously could not honor their first husband. RED FLAG from the beginning. Another tendency of divorced women is they are quarrelsome and judgmental.  You assume a lot about divorced women. You know what they say about people that assume things? LOL I think you know! |
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Topic:
is stalking bad?
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I was kind of stalked by a bunny boiling ex girlfriend. It wasn't scarey but it was annoying and abusive. When I was in my twenties I had a massive crush on a girl and I stalked her. I don't think that I was being creepy and all I did was to hang around in places that I knew that she went to and followed her about from pub to pub. Is that stalking? I didn't harass her. Did consider phoning her one time just to hear her voice but got a grip at that point and realised that that really would be the act of a total weirdo. This is what I don't understand...IF you liked her, why didn't you just ask her out? There is no need to stalk someone when you can just walk up to them and talk to them. I am sure that she did notice that you were every where she was. It is honestly scary when someone you don't know does this to you. When this happened to me the police told me, OH MAYBE THEY THINK YOU ARE CUTE AND THEY WANT TO DATE YOU. I asked them, why don't he just ask me out then. His answer was..maybe he is afraid to ask you. I actually bought a gun and thought NO ONE WILL SCARE ME LIKE THIS AGAIN. I still look over my shoulder all the time and yes I carry my gun every where I go. I won't get scared or stalked again!!! |
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Topic:
Friendship/Dating
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I do think you can be friends with an ex IF it is agreed you are
never going back together. I am friends with a lot of my guys that I use to date. Some of them are married now and I am even friends with their wives, their wives know that I am not the type to mess with a married man so we have no problems. They are my ex for a reason so its not like I am sitting there trying to figure out how to get them back...I am sitting there thinking OMG I am so glad you got stuck with them. LOL not really, they are just friends and I am happy that they are happy with their lives. I think as you get older you mature and realize that you dated them when you were younger and things were not to be for a reason. You can be friends with them because they are your PAST and we are moving on with the FUTURE. I am also friends with my ex husband and I have no problems with his new wife. I think you just have to be mature about the situation and know that things didn't work out for the best. Life does go on and you will find better. |
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Topic:
Awkward
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I actually am just happy that my boys feel that they can come and talk to me. If I am embarrassed I don't let them know it.
You should actually just feel glad that he is taking precautions not to have a baby. Trust me..I am sure you are going to have a lot harder conversations then this one. SO GET READY!!!! |
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Topic:
is stalking bad?
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Well I can see that everyone here thinks that stalking is funny so it is very obvious that no one here has ever had a stalker. I had a stalker for about 2 1/2 years and I actually had the police to tap my phones because I was afraid to leave my house. I just got over going through my Cancer so I was very sick and the last thing I needed was some man bugging me. I called the police and explained everything so they did tap my phones but said they could not really do anything to this person until he did something to me. I honestly believe it was an officer because the officer taking care of my case called and said they knew who it was. So after I got the message on my answering machine I called him back and he said I misunderstood him. Now when he sees me he acts like he is going to pull out in front of me every time he sees me. He watches every move I make...so I went and got a gun and made sure he knew it. I had to get finger printed and now I am a PISTOL PACKING *****. No one will ever make me live in that kind of fear again. IF some one breaks into my house...I shoot to kill. OH and if you think it is fun to have a stalker...you are dead wrong!!! Waah waah waah. Get over it. Stalkers can be stalked. You can choose whether to be the prey or the predator. ARE YOU SERIOUS? I CAN CHOOSE TO BE THE PREY? YOU REALLY ARE A YOUNG KID THAT HAS NO CLUE! I PROMISE YOU ONE THING, I WON'T BE STALKED NOW...ALL I CAN SAY IS SHOOT TO KILL!! BUT NO I DID NOT CHOOSE TO BE THE PREY..IDIOT!!! |
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Topic:
ADHD study
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Actually I have been to so many classes on ADHD because my
son has it. He is the poster child for it, I actually took him off his medicine and he actually felt like he was going crazy. I DO believe in medicating children esp when they are younger and can not sit still. My son is now 18 and we have actually stopped all medication for ADHD but his brain is non-stop. My son still has to take medication to calm him down to sleep or his brain would never allow him to stop. I know a lot of people believe in thinking, oh control his sugar count and that will help. WRONG...we actually eat healthy and have nothing in my house with sugar. I actually had a disease when I was preg and it said that my kids would end up with ADHD. My brother did a study on it, he is a psychologist, and it said that 90% of the time people with this has ADHD children. I had one with ADHD and one with ADD. |
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Topic:
When is enough enough?
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Life is way to short to put up with any thing negative.
When I have to say when is enough enough..it is way past time to end that relationship!! IF you are asking yourself about the relationship, then make a list about the positives and negatives. That should give you your answer. Unless of course you like to be unhappy and you like chaos?? |
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Topic:
is stalking bad?
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Well I can see that everyone here thinks that stalking is
funny so it is very obvious that no one here has ever had a stalker. I had a stalker for about 2 1/2 years and I actually had the police to tap my phones because I was afraid to leave my house. I just got over going through my Cancer so I was very sick and the last thing I needed was some man bugging me. I called the police and explained everything so they did tap my phones but said they could not really do anything to this person until he did something to me. I honestly believe it was an officer because the officer taking care of my case called and said they knew who it was. So after I got the message on my answering machine I called him back and he said I misunderstood him. Now when he sees me he acts like he is going to pull out in front of me every time he sees me. He watches every move I make...so I went and got a gun and made sure he knew it. I had to get finger printed and now I am a PISTOL PACKING *****. No one will ever make me live in that kind of fear again. IF some one breaks into my house...I shoot to kill. OH and if you think it is fun to have a stalker...you are dead wrong!!! |
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Topic:
WORDS GETTING CUT OFF??
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I don't use a phone I am actually on my laptop.
I have been using the slide bar to try to finish reading the sentences but it was being a pain and I thought maybe it was just me. Soufie..after I posted it, I noticed you were also writing shorter lines so I thought it was just the site after that. I guess I will just use the tool bar at the bottom and slide it unless everyone will start writing smaller...HINT HINT!! 
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Topic:
WORDS GETTING CUT OFF??
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When I go to the Forums and start reading topics,
it seems that people type all the way over and the words get cut off and I know the sentence is not complete. Is this just me or is this happening to everyone? This is why I only type so far over and then enter it to the next line, so everyone can read every thing I say. |
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