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That is basically how I have been feeling for a long time now. I am not exactly sure why this has been happening to me but I have felt extremly unworthy and useless to anything. Some of it may have something to do with my mother passing right before xmas this year :'( I cant stop feeling guilty, but its beyond my control. After that i lost my job that ive worked for over a year and took pride in everyday i went. :( Thats just the basics of whats been going on with me...and also it seems every girl in this world just avoids and just never sees me in anything serious wise (which had been goin on as long as i can remember) Bottom line I am not trying to sound like someone needing attention but lately something has been really bothering me. All of the above have been on my mind and I cannot stop feeling depressed and worthless and dont have many people to talk with Anyway, thank you all for your time Sorry for you're loss. Things that you are struggling with come as a blow to anyone, at any age. Try to stay busy, get outdoors, go for walks, do things that you enjoy, and just know, you're mom would not want you to feel this way. Grief takes its time, and toll differently on different people. But, thats just what it is, Grief. The main thing is to stay busy, talk to you're closest friends, i'm sure they understand, or at least have the best intentions. Thats why their you're friends. If after awhile, you're still not "shaking it", seek professional help, never hurts. 
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Multi-tasker or not?
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Constantly...never enough hrs. in the day.
As a matter of fact, had to take a vac. day in order to get some things done, that I can never do during the wk.. Post office, Phone tag, appointment by phone with lawyer in another state.. and oh! I need to finish laundry, go get tires, work 2nd job this eve. and I need to go grocery shopping sometime in there.. And, I still make time to check this place out...  |
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Did you graduate high school
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a virgin? I didn't graduate 6th grade a virgin. Nope, I was married... 
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What would make me
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fall in love with you? If you're a guy, imagine I had a hot sister...lol Lord, lord...pick one...haha.... 
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How would you react if
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you came home to find your partner in bed with someone else? Shoot them both, dump them in a lake then go home and fix dinner. I've always felt, that its my partner, that should be held accountable. They have every right, to say yes, or no. They're an adult. And its always understood, that is 1 thing, I will never tollerate. If they can't keep it in their pants, for anyone other than me, who needs them. 
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Yep actually, Daughter, Son, Brother, and best friend... And thats only the ones I got to actually talk to....  Thats good Shadylady Thanks Mirrow... You're pretty special yourself for starting this thread.. Huggs.... And makes us reallize, what we have.....  Thank you Shadylady Youre quite welcome...you did all the work....lol... You just reminded everyone something to be thankful for....
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Good Company
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Means what to you? Its the familiarity of a close friend, The excitement of a new love. |
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Edited by
Shadylady131
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Sun 03/08/09 08:03 PM
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Yep actually, Daughter, Son, Brother, and best friend... And thats only the ones I got to actually talk to.... Thats good Shadylady Thanks Mirrow... You're pretty special yourself for starting this thread.. Huggs.... And makes us reallize, what we have..... |
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Of all the jobs you have
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My 1st, although the pay was low, it kept me active,,,
And current part-time job, as I'm active, and kinda on my own.. at pretty my own hrs....
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Yep actually, Daughter, Son, Brother, and best friend...
And thats only the ones I got to actually talk to....
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Can honestly say, never had that..
But, looking back.... Any of the men in my life, have had a moustache???  Beer is good also..... |
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Describe yourself ...
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I ain't as good as I once was.
But i'm as good once, as I ever was..
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depression
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Yeah. Someone very close to me attempted suicide last week. It was the worst. But it will certainly leave me with a lifetime of food for thought. We both have been depressed for a long time, and it's no surprise since we both work at the same job that we hate, we're both having a rough semester at the same school, etc. We were inseperable. Last week, things seemed to become unbearable, and she decided to try downing a bottle of medication. I had no idea. I had decided to go out with some friends and wash the week away with beer and liquor. We used two completely different methods of dealing with the stress. And I realized when I saw her lying there on the hospital bed, face blackened from the charcoal they forced down her throat, against her wishes, that we all have to choose our actions so that they benefit us in the long run. Life should be valued, no matter how bad it gets. She survived, and is now looking into therapy. And I couldn't be happier. You keep that in mind.. Yep, its a real "eye" opener... 
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depression
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Yes, the economy is the worst I have ever seen in my 54 years.
But.....I have seen much worse in life.. I was 15 when I lost my brother in Viet Nam, in 69. Was in the "Buffalo Creek" flood in 72.. 125 killed, lost everything but immediate family. Lost g/f in 73. Lost mother in 75. Lost g/m in 80. Divorced 1st husband, after 10 years in 82. 2nd husband committed suicide in 1990. Lost father in 2000. Lost best friend in 2001. Divorced last husband in 2002. In between all of that, there have been times to be thankful for. And I never gave up. Trust me, theres always light at the end of the tunnel. Keep the faith, and know, tommorrow will hold something different. Bless you.... |
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Grab ***
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1st of all...it would be MY ass he's touching.
I'm a big girl. And, I would bet, most women have had to deal with something of this nature before. Everyone is different, but I would bet, for me, that he wouldn't do it again. "I can handle it !! If it gets to where I can't, then I'll ask for you're help. But thats not what you ask. You ask how you're man should handle it.? Thats different. I would hope, if he saw it, he would be there to back me up, based on my reaction. As much as we don't like to think of it that way, its kinda territorial. I like to think of it, with a cool head. Minus any alcohol..  How would I react if some woman was pinching my mans butt?? I would observe the situation 1st. Judge his reaction. Basing everything on that, if he didn't object to her advances, I'd probably knock them both out.....
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Makes it sweater...
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I have been very few places..NY, visiting. To Fl,on way to Bahamas. Did cruise to Bahamas...That was nice...Vac in Fl...
Flew to CA. stayed for a wk...that was different...I swear, those people on the beach, lived in the 70's,,,,I struck me as odd...that they seemed to act like a live "Dobie Gillis"...anyone remember him?? Moved more than I care to count...
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My brother survived the war but he couldn't survive the memories. Drank himself to death. My second husband was like that. But, suicide got him 1st...  There is a method to the madness... Therefore, I work... 
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He was killed in Viet Nam I'm so sorry.... I lost my brother there..  How old was your brother? Carl was 19..I was 16. My brother was 21..I was 15...1969.. Still hurts to this day... He will always be "MY" hero.. 
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Dr Ruth or Dr Phil??
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Dr Ruth.....
Even she makes me 
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