also disagree with most of what miss brown eyes says. Sounds like tactical game playing to me. If the attraction is there.. Then having sex on a first date can be completely right and satisfying. Has nothing to do with keeping a man interested but more to do with a natural progression of exploring chemistry and intimacy. For those who feel that refraining from sex empowers them .. That is fine too.. But the assumption that someone who chooses to have sex on a first date is easy .. Or being used .. Is old fashioned and misguided.

Sorry brown eyes but I completely disagree with MUCH if what you just said,

1. I'm not get angry with a woman not sleeping with me in the first date, but unless specifically stated up front, if by week 3, she hasn't slept with me, it's not going to make me more interested, in fact I'd probably read it as she isn't interested in me and I'd move on to someone else.

2. I WANT a woman to tell me what she wants in bed....