Just wanted to say hello to everyone tonight :)

wow see his ex once when i was over his house his ex girlfriend not wife saw me called up his ex wife she called him completely blasted him out that i was there. I looked at him and just simply said i do not want to get involved in a triangle and no one should ever.

I dated a guy who had two kids i dont have any kids it didnt really bother me. He had an ex (the kids mother)that constantly called i am a very laid back person so i let it go but after awhile i noticed he would let me go so he could take her call and it became less about me more about her. I just backed off left it at that. Cant have three people in a relationship what he did to me was unfair because he led me to believe all that drama was behind him she (besides his kids) were not a part of his life anymore but i felt like the third wheel and like i was intruding.

right well he has an ex wife that he still is in contact with and trying for custody of his kids. Wanted me to play step mom but i'm not their mom they have a mother, He has a family and i want my OWN someday not another. Unfortuatley heis stringing me along waiting for mew to breakdown live with him so i can be nothing more than a conveinience for him while he doesnt lift a finger. But what he doesnt know is i'm young but not stupid lol

I met someone who everyone thought was no match for me complete opposite kept telling me oh my God you're 19 you don't need all that baggage, He was like the male version of me but it can never work it's too bad he has a past that he wont drop and wanted me to be an addition to it, and i want a future to build with someone make my own memories. So i am sad to lol

Whether you rush or are a slow mover, Take your time with things when it's right for you thats the best choice.

lol hey everyone :)

i'm coping now :(

wow nice lol and thank you i just have been upset over it becuse i honestly did want it to work but of course it's just a way too complicated situation only time will tell how serious he is and if not move on

ty haha i jsut needed to vent this has been going on for about 6 months he is also divorced and has two kids and me being 19 and no kids it would be awkward. I want a family of my own someday i dont want to feel like i am intruding in on someone elses. But yes since i came back home i have been fruststated mainly because of all the effort i have made and havent got any back.

true i drove 900 miles for this man, And he shows no signs of doing the same for me and he hardly calls. At this point i am going to take everyones elses advice and date someone i can see, spend time with make memories with lol to me that is a relationship. I do care about him but i just cant do any more than i have.

I am stupid i know and it will never work.

I am starting to realize that long distance relationships are near impossible if the person you are "with" lol is completely content there without you.

Well i always say if he wants it to happen...IT WILL HAPPEN lol he will be knocking down your door to get to you...

me

i want cookies

i would never do such a thing