I travel for a living. I've provide a good & stable home for my family. I am not allowed to be a disciplinarian when the kids derail and show disrespect. The wife... well she tolerates or outright ignores their disrespect. When I step in to quell the nonsense, then she steps in like Jesus to save them from wrath of God... thus deleting my purpose as a man/father/husband. I mentally & physically cant deal with the stress of being a bystander in my own home to being disrespected & seeing my wife be disrespected (she seems totally ok with it). Stress was so bad, I had a stroke. Now she's upset that I dont talk to her while I'm out of town. In baseball terms... she swings... she misses... Honestly... i think I'm done. I did the best that i could but right now, it's about me and my health and my healing and moving on with life with or without them. So -a question for the class- What do you think of this? What would you recommend knowing that I have exceeded my wits end to the point of injury. I may need to dip my toes in ocean water and let the sand scour my skin while the sun bakes my skin back to energy with the smell of salt water clear my nasal passages, while looking a fat women in bathing suits... that part *sigh* delightful lol