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| Topic: am i needy, clingy, normal? | |
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I understand what your saying Jillybean...as much as I do like her, I also don't think I really want to be in a relationship as confusing as this one is...again. Honestly, I don't think I really want to be in any relationship, they are just to hurtful, especially in the beginning, when you think you have fallen for her and not really sure how she feels...she told me the other day she loves me after I told her I am in love with her for the first time, but I think she means she loves me, not that she is in love with me.
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5 hours a week isnt that much!!!! I prefer my men to miss me 76.8902789236783% of the time and the rest he better have a life!!!
 
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Miss Match....
For a mutual match the needs of the one match the needs of the other. Close, but no c gar. |
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5 hours a week is about an average of 1 full day a month, thats about 12 full days a year...there are 365 days in a year, someone is that busy to not have time for someone they "care" about?
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Did you go to her house and drop the kids off at the pool?
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sounds like she isnt that into u. U should move on with someone that would appreciate u.
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I want a man thats gonna miss me when we aren't together or tell me he loves me when we talk..I guess the thing is..you have to alter your behavior for the person that you are with..If you got someone that likes you being around 24/7 do it..you got someone that needs space give it to them..change your behavior as the relationship changes..talk to the girl at the beginning and ask what she wants and be that
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sounds like she isnt that into u. U should move on with someone that would appreciate u. agrees |
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move on
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What you have is not a relationship. She is just someone you se here and there. If it's a relationship you are looking for you are with the wrong person
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If she has told you that the time she has to spend with you, is what has been the norm, then yes, you seem a bit clingy....
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I understand what your saying Jillybean...as much as I do like her, I also don't think I really want to be in a relationship as confusing as this one is...again. Honestly, I don't think I really want to be in any relationship, they are just to hurtful, especially in the beginning, when you think you have fallen for her and not really sure how she feels...she told me the other day she loves me after I told her I am in love with her for the first time, but I think she means she loves me, not that she is in love with me. 
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Well the reason i asked her is because she sets up all the days we spend together. I think she wants to spend time with me because she will ask me what i'm doing on sunday, or wednesday or whatever. She will then call me when that time comes and cancel, saying she is sick or something.
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I understand what your saying Jillybean...as much as I do like her, I also don't think I really want to be in a relationship as confusing as this one is...again. Honestly, I don't think I really want to be in any relationship, they are just to hurtful, especially in the beginning, when you think you have fallen for her and not really sure how she feels...she told me the other day she loves me after I told her I am in love with her for the first time, but I think she means she loves me, not that she is in love with me.
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jill u seem nice was going to message you that but prefrences blocked me from
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thanks hon! friends request works!
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Steven you knew this girl had this schedule when you got together with her. Take your five hours or find someone new. It really IS that simple. You knew what you were getting when you signed on for her... I remember all the prior posts.
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Edited by
stevenpwis
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Sun 03/30/08 02:55 PM
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I am excepting it lilith, it's just the way she was talking, it seemed like she thinks i'm needy...that is not what i am, i just wanted to see if there was a way we could spend more time together, which i have mentioned to her, and she said it was fine in the past, even doing homework with her.
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I am excepting it lilith, it's just the way she was talking, it seemed like she thinks i'm needy You are needy. You need more than she can give, or is willing to give. And that is not enough for you. It seems pretty simple to me. |
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but is being "needy" like this, just wanting a slight bit more time with a girl bad? I mean is it bad with all girls or just the ones that I happen to date?
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