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Topic: Are there any decent guys in NJ
winnie410 Joined Thu 09/21/06 Posts: 8143	Wed 04/16/08 09:40 PM
there are none, but not just in nj. its an epidemic. next question? (there are nice guys in nj, just not where i live. you'll find someone.)

Milhouse601 Joined Fri 07/27/07 Posts: 12	Fri 04/18/08 01:22 PM
There are alot of nice guys but most of them are trying to be players so they stray...

Pinky01 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 3492	Sun 04/20/08 09:26 PM
good one..

jaycalderwood Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 129	Mon 04/21/08 02:27 PM
I'm a good guy in the real part of Jersey...South Jersey.

malizza Joined Mon 10/15/07 Posts: 113	Mon 04/21/08 07:26 PM Edited by malizza on Mon 04/21/08 07:36 PM
OK SO all the good guys are either, married, Old, Dead or Gay... which is fine but I want a Life partner and a lover, I have enough friends.

Frostytall Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 75	Fri 04/25/08 04:25 PM
I guess it would all hang on your definition of a good guy. We are out there.

rocketman52 Joined Mon 04/21/08 Posts: 9	Sat 04/26/08 08:35 AM
Sure there are. First, you have to give some indication that you aren't nuts...to draw us out. It's much more difficult to find a mentally and emotionally in tact female. You can't imagine how difficult...at least among the older girls.

rocketman52 Joined Mon 04/21/08 Posts: 9	Sat 04/26/08 09:20 AM
Nice guys in Jersey? I keep hoping but so far............! Your problem is that you're too quick to judge. You won't find the inner value in anyone, that way.

DarlingDeb Joined Tue 04/15/08 Posts: 75	Sat 04/26/08 04:10 PM
Nice guys in Jersey? I keep hoping but so far............! Your problem is that you're too quick to judge. You won't find the inner value in anyone, that way. Well I guess I am quick to judge someone who tells me if I'm wearing red lipstick he's out of there! My problem is I want a nice guy, not a control freak!

rocketman52 Joined Mon 04/21/08 Posts: 9	Sat 04/26/08 06:00 PM Edited by rocketman52 on Sat 04/26/08 06:00 PM
Nice guys in Jersey? I keep hoping but so far............! Your problem is that you're too quick to judge. You won't find the inner value in anyone, that way. Well I guess I am quick to judge someone who tells me if I'm wearing red lipstick he's out of there! My problem is I want a nice guy, not a control freak! And that's where your rush to judgement was incorrect.. So now, you're home with your lipstick.

DarlingDeb Joined Tue 04/15/08 Posts: 75	Sat 04/26/08 08:42 PM
and so much better off!!!!!

rocketman52 Joined Mon 04/21/08 Posts: 9	Sun 04/27/08 03:35 AM
and so much better off!!!!!

DarlingDeb Joined Tue 04/15/08 Posts: 75	Sun 04/27/08 01:34 PM
PLEASE! You've already proved my point, move on.

parksideguy Joined Tue 10/09/07 Posts: 22	Tue 04/29/08 02:50 PM
Hello there,There are many decent guys in N.J. and I would like to think Im one.I am a man you wont find in a bar or club!I am divorced and have been for a longtime! I have not been out dating alot but have been out on a few.I would like very much to meet a nice woman to date and just take our time.If you have been married before? Im sure you understand.

parksideguy Joined Tue 10/09/07 Posts: 22	Tue 04/29/08 02:57 PM
WOW? you know that sounded rude! right?

DarlingDeb Joined Tue 04/15/08 Posts: 75	Tue 04/29/08 05:59 PM
WOW? you know that sounded rude! right? It was meant to be rude. You took one statement out of context. It was an ongoing conversation and again it was meant to be rude!

parksideguy Joined Tue 10/09/07 Posts: 22	Tue 04/29/08 06:04 PM
Pardon me? but where I come from in jerzee,Rude doesnt attract the class of guy you seem to be looking for? But Im no brain surgeon!

Tracey_2 Joined Tue 08/14/07 Posts: 6	Sun 05/04/08 02:17 AM
In general, I'll agree, we Jersians are sometimes more shallow and selfish than people from most other places. It's like part of our culture. That's not to say that everyone is shallow and selfish because there are plenty of guys around here who are not. Just try not to be so disappointed about finding a wrong guy as you might miss out on someone really great in the process.

Phoenix0311 Joined Sun 03/25/07 Posts: 3389	Sun 05/04/08 09:43 PM
In general, I'll agree, we Jersians are sometimes more shallow and selfish than people from most other places. It's like part of our culture. That's not to say that everyone is shallow and selfish because there are plenty of guys around here who are not. Just try not to be so disappointed about finding a wrong guy as you might miss out on someone really great in the process. So True

IMSmartestWarrior Joined Thu 09/21/06 Posts: 75	Mon 05/05/08 11:22 AM
I am decent but I don't feel that's what most women are looking for these days in NJ.