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Okay so here is the deal about 6 years ago I met my roommate and we have been close friends ever since. At that time I was married to my exhusband and she was married to her exhusband. We were all friends we did stuff together and our kids play together. Now we are all divorced and the single foursome...lol. I know its weird but we all still hang out together. The issue I am having though is I was up last night late and playing on myspace...I know I am addicted. Well my friends ex husband sent me a message and we have been joking back and forth. Well somehow he ended up making a joke about us being snuggle buddies...I though he was kidding but not so much now. I believe it would be wrong and weird even if it were to friends leaning on each other through the hard times of divorce for me to do something like...snuggle my friends ex. Am I right or wrong?
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You are right. Stay away from your friend's ex.
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you're both adults...I don't see anything wrong with it..Have fun!
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Okay so here is the deal about 6 years ago I met my roommate and we have been close friends ever since. At that time I was married to my exhusband and she was married to her exhusband. We were all friends we did stuff together and our kids play together. Now we are all divorced and the single foursome...lol. I know its weird but we all still hang out together. The issue I am having though is I was up last night late and playing on myspace...I know I am addicted. Well my friends ex husband sent me a message and we have been joking back and forth. Well somehow he ended up making a joke about us being snuggle buddies...I though he was kidding but not so much now. I believe it would be wrong and weird even if it were to friends leaning on each other through the hard times of divorce for me to do something like...snuggle my friends ex. Am I right or wrong? depends on your definition and value of your friends. I do not accept sloppy seconds from friends; any b/f, lover, husband of any of my friends is STRICTLY offlimits. JMO welcome and enjoy jsh 
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a true friend would not mess with a friends ex.
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I think you are right. I don't think it would be such a great idea
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Oh don't go there, nothing but trouble lays ahead
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Snuggling up to her ex could be a quick way to make her an ex-friend
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thats what i am sayin plus it would ruin the incredible friendship we all still have even threw all of the crap we dealt with each other....someone doesn't want to listen though
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You never, ever, leave your wingman!
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you're both adults...I don't see anything wrong with it..Have fun! |
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you're both adults...I don't see anything wrong with it..Have fun! Thanks Jilly.I was going to say something but I am so tired of being the JSH beyotch. |
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Edited by
1socialbutterfly
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Thu 04/03/08 12:29 PM
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thats what i am sayin plus it would ruin the incredible friendship we all still have even threw all of the crap we dealt with each other....someone doesn't want to listen though Tell him that if he cant respect your wishes to remain just firends then he needs to find a new friend |
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Oh don't go there, nothing but trouble lays ahead Or a 3some....;) |
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you're both adults...I don't see anything wrong with it..Have fun! what boundaries? They are all exs...if I got the post right they are all singles. |
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you're both adults...I don't see anything wrong with it..Have fun! what boundaries? They are all exs...if I got the post right they are all singles. It's a group of friends..you don't screw with your friend's ex. |
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Edited by
spqr
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Thu 04/03/08 12:36 PM
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you're both adults...I don't see anything wrong with it..Have fun! what boundaries? They are all exs...if I got the post right they are all singles. It's a group of friends..you don't screw with your friend's ex. I don't see why not "screw" someone you already know and trust...maybe ask your girlfriend if she's ok with it..other than that I don't see any problem with it. |
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Never never never mess around with a friends ex.... Theres an unwritten rule about that..
Maybe it should be written somewhere.. 
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Okay so here is the deal about 6 years ago I met my roommate and we have been close friends ever since. At that time I was married to my exhusband and she was married to her exhusband. We were all friends we did stuff together and our kids play together. Now we are all divorced and the single foursome...lol. I know its weird but we all still hang out together. The issue I am having though is I was up last night late and playing on myspace...I know I am addicted. Well my friends ex husband sent me a message and we have been joking back and forth. Well somehow he ended up making a joke about us being snuggle buddies...I though he was kidding but not so much now. I believe it would be wrong and weird even if it were to friends leaning on each other through the hard times of divorce for me to do something like...snuggle my friends ex. Am I right or wrong? 
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you're both adults...I don't see anything wrong with it..Have fun! what boundaries? They are all exs...if I got the post right they are all singles. |
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