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shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Fri 04/04/08 08:05 AM
Why would you want to spend time with a woman and not be at all affectionate toward her? He throw's it in my face that I'm still married. I'm waiting for the divorce. 2-3 mo. He talk's about getting married. I don't love him. Am I just a candidate? I'm confused, fill me in.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 04/04/08 08:07 AM
a candidate for what? Not sure I understand your post at all. If you don't love him, why do you care that he is not affectionate? I'm confused, fill me in.

phirequest Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 197	Fri 04/04/08 08:09 AM
COME HERE DARLIN,,,I'LL GIVE YOU ALL THE AFFECTION YOU'LL EVER NEED AND WANT PHIRE FORGET THAT GAME PLAYER

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Fri 04/04/08 08:10 AM
I'd say not to hang out with him.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Fri 04/04/08 08:10 AM
a candidate for what? Not sure I understand your post at all. If you don't love him, why do you care that he is not affectionate? I'm confused, fill me in. I'm with ya

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Fri 04/04/08 08:11 AM
a candidate for what? Not sure I understand your post at all. If you don't love him, why do you care that he is not affectionate? I'm confused, fill me in. A candidate for marriage. He's supposedly my BF. I call, he won't answer or call me back. And, most of the time won't call at all. Say's he doesn't like to talk on the phone.I know how that sound's...NOT my bf. He does suffer from depression and, does not take his med.'s as he should.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 04/04/08 08:14 AM
a candidate for what? Not sure I understand your post at all. If you don't love him, why do you care that he is not affectionate? I'm confused, fill me in. A candidate for marriage. He's supposedly my BF. I call, he won't answer or call me back. And, most of the time won't call at all. Say's he doesn't like to talk on the phone.I know how that sound's...NOT my bf. He does suffer from depression and, does not take his med.'s as he should. But you said you don't love him. So what difference does any of this make?

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Fri 04/04/08 08:14 AM
maybe he throws the fact that you're married in your face cuz he's your bf... I'm just guessing here

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Fri 04/04/08 08:15 AM
a candidate for what? Not sure I understand your post at all. If you don't love him, why do you care that he is not affectionate? I'm confused, fill me in. A candidate for marriage. He's supposedly my BF. I call, he won't answer or call me back. And, most of the time won't call at all. Say's he doesn't like to talk on the phone.I know how that sound's...NOT my bf. He does suffer from depression and, does not take his med.'s as he should. He won't open up and talk. Say's I know what turn's him on....I have no clue! Never has a difinitive answer to anything. I can't guess his answer's. What the heck does he want from me? Just somebody to hang with? He sleep's in my bed....and goes to sleep! That's it.

aLittleBird Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 2515	Fri 04/04/08 08:15 AM
I'm confused too...

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Fri 04/04/08 08:16 AM
I wouldn't put up with that crap. Let him be depressed all alone. You deserve better than that!

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Fri 04/04/08 08:16 AM
maybe he throws the fact that you're married in your face cuz he's your bf... I'm just guessing here I do have to wait for the lawyer to do his job.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Fri 04/04/08 08:17 AM
honestly, it seems like he's just not that into you... leave him alone for awhile if you can...

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 04/04/08 08:17 AM
From what I am deciphering here, you are currently married, will be divorced in 2-3 months, and consider yourself a candidate for marriage to a guy who won't talk to you, and whom you do not love. I think you need to slow things down.

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Fri 04/04/08 08:18 AM
I wouldn't put up with that crap. Let him be depressed all alone. You deserve better than that! Thank's Kitten. You seem to understand a bit better what I'm talking about here. I'm not looking for critsism from the women. I wanted a man's perspective.

aLittleBird Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 2515	Fri 04/04/08 08:21 AM
do I have this right? 1. you're married, almost divorced 2. you're dating someone 3. he loves you but you don't love him 4. he spends the night at your house, but no sex 5. you call him but he doesn't answer or call you. 6. he's supposed to be on meds, but won't take them correctly. ??????

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Fri 04/04/08 08:21 AM
From what I am deciphering here, you are currently married, will be divorced in 2-3 months, and consider yourself a candidate for marriage to a guy who won't talk to you, and whom you do not love. I think you need to slow things down. I do not want to marry him. I don't understand why he want's to be involved with me. Why HE talk's about marriage and hold's back completely.

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Fri 04/04/08 08:22 AM
do I have this right? 1. you're married, almost divorced 2. you're dating someone 3. he loves you but you don't love him 4. he spends the night at your house, but no sex 5. you call him but he doesn't answer or call you. 6. he's supposed to be on meds, but won't take them correctly. ?????? I do not think he love's me. Confused? So am I.

SQUIDLOVERGIRL85 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 328	Fri 04/04/08 08:22 AM Edited by SQUIDLOVERGIRL85 on Fri 04/04/08 08:23 AM
Why would you want to spend time with a woman and not be at all affectionate toward her? He throw's it in my face that I'm still married. I'm waiting for the divorce. 2-3 mo. He talk's about getting married. I don't love him. Am I just a candidate? I'm confused, fill me in. sounds like a rebound guy to me but i really dont know

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 04/04/08 08:24 AM
From what I am deciphering here, you are currently married, will be divorced in 2-3 months, and consider yourself a candidate for marriage to a guy who won't talk to you, and whom you do not love. I think you need to slow things down. I do not want to marry him. I don't understand why he want's to be involved with me. Why HE talk's about marriage and hold's back completely. why the hell are you even with this guy? It seems like a total waste of time on both parts. Go find someone that will talk to you and be nice to you.