hello . everyone tonight , its nice to be able to support each other . on topics that most people have . and its nice to know that your not alone . anyways here is . i am just curious how long someone should start dating after a long breakup . because it happen to me . i should of finish my topic . wondering if you ever been in a long serious relationship . when you break up you hear from friends and family they already started dating right after you break up with them , i was just curious if anyone ever had that happen to them .

Follow you heart

If you were married, I believe you have to give yourself time to get over this person. I would say 6 months to a year to get past the pain.

Whenever you want. Your free.

when ever u feel ready...no one else can judge that but urself

huh?

be fair to yourself and whoever you may date...wait until you're feelings have simmered from the breakup and you're truly ready for something new.

Hell I broke up with mine 7 months ago..and i'm ready!

For some odd reason I do not get what a long break up is.. I mean did it take weeks, months, years.. WHAT?, just a bit confused about that part.

Any how I guess it's all up to you and how ready you are to jump back in the dating world, as well as if your heart is there to.

its night time?

i would say it depends on how much you see each other and how long you have already seen your date and how good you know her. i been maried 3 times and i jumped everytime and now that i have expierienced that and that im older i tell you to be cautious

on the East Coast it is

Whenever you feel like you are ready.

hmmm still working on that 13 years and counting

Some forever,,some for awhile, and some just KEEP DATING over and over because they fear the same pains so THEY never commit AGAIN....good luck..

Whenever you feel comfortable

And ready ... good luck to you

Youll know when youre ready hun!!!

well to be honest it took me 3 years to get over my x and i took the time not only to heal but to better my self and it took time i see people jump from one relationship to another and it dose not last long its because some out there carry on the pain and it becomes a mess and the old issues come in to the new relationship with trust ect so it all depends on who u are and if u think youare ready for it .

its been almost 9 months(since my wife died) and i know that i miss having her in my life and would like to have a new relationship (not a replacement).as much as a want it i ,myself,dont think i am 100% ready.but it all depends on the person.everyone tells me i need to find someone but i want to be fair to myself and whoever i do get involved with.

I don't think there's a set time line. It's unique to each individual. If one person wasn't happy for a long time and was ready for the relationship to be over a while ago they may be ready to jump back into the fray. Others may want to take some time out to analyze or recover. Depends on the person.