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Topic: Separated....
LadyOfMagic's photo
Sun 04/13/08 10:13 AM
Am I the only one that has a prob dating/meeting a guy that says he's separated?..especially those that say they've been separated for years..I mean what is the point in that..Get your divorce then move on!..Ok..sorry..I'm calm again.laugh

brooke007's photo
Sun 04/13/08 10:15 AM
Edited by brooke007 on Sun 04/13/08 10:15 AM
i would not date somebody that is separated...
I didnt date while i was separated.

asking for a whole NEW set of DRAMA!!laugh laugh

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 04/13/08 10:15 AM
Sometimes it's not that easy!!!!

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sun 04/13/08 10:16 AM

i would not date somebody that is separated...
I didnt date while i was separated.

asking for a whole NEW set of DRAMA!!laugh laugh

I know!..I mean thats just setting you up for a heartbreak..why do that to yourself

blueyes2008's photo
Sun 04/13/08 10:18 AM
Well im going through a divorce and put seperated because the divorce isnt done...and is taking forever...and ever...and ever....

lausim's photo
Sun 04/13/08 10:18 AM
I do have to agree. Separation brings on a whole set of its own problems and drama.


Queene123's photo
Sun 04/13/08 10:20 AM
Edited by Queene123 on Sun 04/13/08 10:24 AM
there was this guy i met several yrs ago and he had been separated from his wife for over 5yrs and of course he wanted a divorce but didnt know how to go about it, so i help him with the paper work and he got his divorce.. i was with him for 2yrs. he was just lazy. i was working 3 jobs and he was just sitting on his butt..

i dated while i was separated from my hubby, and i was just waiting for my divorce to go through..

dolphin14's photo
Sun 04/13/08 10:21 AM
most men are ready to move on as soon as those seperation papers have started. Men have a hard time bein alone.....


LadyOfMagic's photo
Sun 04/13/08 10:21 AM
People that are separated often get back with their exes..I just feel it's wrong to bring someone into something that's not finished yet.

Donnar's photo
Sun 04/13/08 10:21 AM
Nope, you're not the only one. I do not date separated men at all. Period. The end. I agree with the long time separated. Sounds like a security blanket to me. I have trouble with men who are rebounding from a broken marriage. There's too much grief in the dating world without inviting what I consider to be trouble. flowerforyou

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sun 04/13/08 10:23 AM

there was this guy i met several yrs ago and he had been separated from his wife for over 5yrs and of course he wanted a divorce but didnt know how to go about it, so i help him with the paper work and he got his divorce.. i was with him for 2yrs. he was just lazy. i was working 3 jobs and he was just sitting on his butt

OMG..Don't put up with that for 2 MONTHS let alone 2yrs..he needs to be off his butt makin some money

no photo
Sun 04/13/08 10:23 AM
Seperated often ends up meaning "we had a fight last night & I'll show her"! Married men often say they are "seperated" if they have to sleep on the couch. I want papers with dry ink.

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sun 04/13/08 10:25 AM

Seperated often ends up meaning "we had a fight last night & I'll show her"! Married men often say they are "seperated" if they have to sleep on the couch. I want papers with dry ink.

Exactly Hen!

itsmetina's photo
Sun 04/13/08 10:25 AM
true lady when chit happens their x might be calling

lausim's photo
Sun 04/13/08 10:26 AM

Seperated often ends up meaning "we had a fight last night & I'll show her"! Married men often say they are "seperated" if they have to sleep on the couch. I want papers with dry ink.


I just love the ones that say "yes, I'm married, but we're only together for the kids and we sleep in separate bedrooms" yeah, right....noway

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sun 04/13/08 10:26 AM
Now..I have never been married so I may be wrong on this but..you don't need both parties to agree to the divorce to get one do you?..I mean you can't force someone to stay with you if they don't want to.

Queene123's photo
Sun 04/13/08 10:26 AM


there was this guy i met several yrs ago and he had been separated from his wife for over 5yrs and of course he wanted a divorce but didnt know how to go about it, so i help him with the paper work and he got his divorce.. i was with him for 2yrs. he was just lazy. i was working 3 jobs and he was just sitting on his butt

OMG..Don't put up with that for 2 MONTHS let alone 2yrs..he needs to be off his butt makin some money


were not together anymore we broke up several yrs ago. i actually kicked him to the curb. and he met someone else and he married her.. i guess now hes working, but i dont know if that even true, as he only worked once yr at the state fair. when we were together, i still talk to him every now and then

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 04/13/08 10:27 AM

People that are separated often get back with their exes..I just feel it's wrong to bring someone into something that's not finished yet.










Not true here!!!!!!

bobdesigns4262's photo
Sun 04/13/08 10:28 AM
can't agree ladies....each relationship has its own set of issues; mine is a marriage of convience and until my ex gets her mom here from another country, can i divorce...my last marriage i was seperated for 9 years; i was not gonna pay for the whole divorce, she wanted it, but couldn't pay, so i made her wait until she finally paid her halve...like i said, different strokes, different folks

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sun 04/13/08 10:28 AM


Seperated often ends up meaning "we had a fight last night & I'll show her"! Married men often say they are "seperated" if they have to sleep on the couch. I want papers with dry ink.


I just love the ones that say "yes, I'm married, but we're only together for the kids and we sleep in separate bedrooms" yeah, right....noway

Isn't that the WORST excuse EVER?..I mean yes it would be nice if the kids had both parents in their lives..but you don't have to be together to be good parents to the children!

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