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friend etc got pregnant and wanted a abortion and she asked YOU if you would lend her the money for the abortion, would you say yes or no?? Every person is responsible for their body and all that it is within it and may be one day they will have to answer. Meanwhile who am I or you to decide what one should do. If any human being is in need of help they they should be helped one way or the other. By saying the above I am not saying abortion is right or wrong it never is back and white and needs to be studied case by case. |
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Then this so called loan becomes hinged upon the lenders beliefs right? Well due 2 the nature of the loan.My answer then is No!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I say that it depends on where you stand on the issue. Only you can know what the right thing to do is.
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for any reason ...other than "medically necessary"
NO!!!!!!!! But thats just me Love kids....raised mine. they are awesome people Lost one...therefore....I have no sympathy for the selfishness of anyone who would abort one JMO |
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dont beleve in abortions unless its in the case of a rape or other bad situation where its necessary ,but not because some one didnt use protection ..i am a single parent and if i have to suffer so should they all....  ...j/k i was raped, if i had got pregnant then i would have kept the baby, thats just me though, i totally understand why some women would have to have a abortion after rape. |
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thanks for the opinions, its interesting.
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No way, not a chance in hell! just put a child up for adoption. I knew that I could not raise it, but still wanted to give it the best life I could. There is no way in hell I would support the murder of an innocent child. What did that baby ever do to deserve such a punishment?
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It depends on the situation, if she new what she was doing then she needs to take responcibility for it.
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No way, not a chance in hell! just put a child up for adoption. I knew that I could not raise it, but still wanted to give it the best life I could. There is no way in hell I would support the murder of an innocent child. What did that baby ever do to deserve such a punishment? im not talking about me, so i cant answer your question. |
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if you lend money for something you don't feel is right for whatever it is...then you are just as wrong
for me it depends on the situation. i have the choice to help or not. unless I knew what was going on then I wouldn't commit to lending money until I had the facts |
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No way, not a chance in hell! just put a child up for adoption. I knew that I could not raise it, but still wanted to give it the best life I could. There is no way in hell I would support the murder of an innocent child. What did that baby ever do to deserve such a punishment? im not talking about me, so i cant answer your question. It's OK, it was a rhetorical question anyways. |
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Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Wow very deep question,,,, I am a mother of 4 kids and a very proud grandmother to three,,, My personal experience and yes I live with this every day of my life.... Some years back my son and daughter in law came to me and said they were preg,, and did not at this time want a child,, stupidity on there part and in the moment mood not thinking ohhhh we can get preg,, well whats done is done,,,
They came to me and asked for help,,, I extended my arms took them in, preached, cried and stood by them as they decided to terminate the preg,,, not my choice theres I to this day wonder what he or she would have looked like,, hmmmmmmmmm what could she or he have grown up to be,,, past is past and yes they have lived with this for quite sometime and will till the end of time,,, they have two amazing children now,, and deep within have regrets,, yet it was there choice,,, my choice was to stand with them,, hold them,, cry with them and then move forward with them....... So as a Mom and a Grandmother, depending on the situation,, I would not provide the money I would however provide the love needed when they return home.  
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No way, not a chance in hell! just put a child up for adoption. I knew that I could not raise it, but still wanted to give it the best life I could. There is no way in hell I would support the murder of an innocent child. What did that baby ever do to deserve such a punishment? im not talking about me, so i cant answer your question. It's OK, it was a rhetorical question anyways. thanks 
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noo!! i don't wana be a murdorer.
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I digress......Deb makes a valid point I did not consider in my first post to this topic.....
Medically necessary.....or in the case of rape...... otherwise....NO |
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Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Wow very deep question,,,, I am a mother of 4 kids and a very proud grandmother to three,,, My personal experience and yes I live with this every day of my life.... Some years back my son and daughter in law came to me and said they were preg,, and did not at this time want a child,, stupidity on there part and in the moment mood not thinking ohhhh we can get preg,, well whats done is done,,, They came to me and asked for help,,, I extended my arms took them in, preached, cried and stood by them as they decided to terminate the preg,,, not my choice theres I to this day wonder what he or she would have looked like,, hmmmmmmmmm what could she or he have grown up to be,,, past is past and yes they have lived with this for quite sometime and will till the end of time,,, they have two amazing children now,, and deep within have regrets,, yet it was there choice,,, my choice was to stand with them,, hold them,, cry with them and then move forward with them....... So as a Mom and a Grandmother, depending on the situation,, I would not provide the money I would however provide the love needed when they return home. thankyou for taking the time to write that.
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good old nhs!
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I digress......Deb makes a valid point I did not consider in my first post to this topic..... Medically necessary.....or in the case of rape...... otherwise....NO what valid point did i make?? i did say, i have been raped, and if i had of got pregnant i would have kept the baby, but thats me. |
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I digress......Deb makes a valid point I did not consider in my first post to this topic..... Medically necessary.....or in the case of rape...... otherwise....NO what valid point did i make?? i did say, i have been raped, and if i had of got pregnant i would have kept the baby, but thats me. That is a place of choice for a woman....one that only SHE can make.... |
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Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Wow very deep question,,,, I am a mother of 4 kids and a very proud grandmother to three,,, My personal experience and yes I live with this every day of my life.... Some years back my son and daughter in law came to me and said they were preg,, and did not at this time want a child,, stupidity on there part and in the moment mood not thinking ohhhh we can get preg,, well whats done is done,,, They came to me and asked for help,,, I extended my arms took them in, preached, cried and stood by them as they decided to terminate the preg,,, not my choice theres I to this day wonder what he or she would have looked like,, hmmmmmmmmm what could she or he have grown up to be,,, past is past and yes they have lived with this for quite sometime and will till the end of time,,, they have two amazing children now,, and deep within have regrets,, yet it was there choice,,, my choice was to stand with them,, hold them,, cry with them and then move forward with them....... So as a Mom and a Grandmother, depending on the situation,, I would not provide the money I would however provide the love needed when they return home. thankyou for taking the time to write that.
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