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Topic: waiting
itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Fri 04/25/08 12:25 PM
whats the max u'd wait to have sex once you entered a relationship?

averageguy33 Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 148	Fri 04/25/08 12:25 PM
good question

FallinAngel82 Joined Fri 01/26/07 Posts: 12261	Fri 04/25/08 12:26 PM Edited by FallinAngel82 on Fri 04/25/08 12:27 PM
well that depends. on , how long i knew the person before we started a relationship.. but i'm a physical person so not to long. maybe at the longest 3 months.. if i've known them for a long time.. 5-6 if i havent known them that long

me2g Joined Fri 02/08/08 Posts: 1285	Fri 04/25/08 12:27 PM
8-9 months before id start raising the issue..

Dee913 Joined Mon 04/21/08 Posts: 18	Fri 04/25/08 12:27 PM
whats the max u'd wait to have sex once you entered a relationship? Wow that is a good one, I would say a couple of weeks or if it feels right go for it at anytime. LOL

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Fri 04/25/08 12:27 PM
Ummmm.....well. Last time I waited about 5 hours, and had talked for about six weeks daily. The last four weeks were several hours a day. But face to face time.... five hours seemed about right. If I'd been less nervous, I'd have done it sooner.

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Fri 04/25/08 12:27 PM
good question passed by answering it didn't ya

Dee913 Joined Mon 04/21/08 Posts: 18	Fri 04/25/08 12:28 PM
whats the max u'd wait to have sex once you entered a relationship? It has been a long time since I was in a new relationship so that is a tough one though. You would be better to listen to the others not me. LOL

Thomas27 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 4860	Fri 04/25/08 12:28 PM
Shouldn't sex be a factor in determining whether or not you would want a relationship with that person? Just asking?

averageguy33 Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 148	Fri 04/25/08 12:29 PM
good question passed by answering it didn't ya yes i did lol

FallinAngel82 Joined Fri 01/26/07 Posts: 12261	Fri 04/25/08 12:29 PM
i guess but not everyone believes in just having sex to see if you wanna date them

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Fri 04/25/08 12:29 PM
Shouldn't sex be a factor in determining whether or not you would want a relationship with that person? Just asking? so ur saying ya need a sample 1st

averageguy33 Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 148	Fri 04/25/08 12:30 PM
you always need a sample

Masalka Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 1191	Fri 04/25/08 12:31 PM
Shouldn't sex be a factor in determining whether or not you would want a relationship with that person? Just asking? lol amen to that

MyrtleBeachDude Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 4028	Fri 04/25/08 12:31 PM
Immediatly but unfortunatly the rest of my body don't react as fast as my mind. I have to take viagra....spray some WD-40 on the old joints...eat a hand full of breath mints....Wake my date up.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Fri 04/25/08 12:31 PM
8-9 months before id start raising the issue.. u prude

Knightime Joined Tue 12/04/07 Posts: 1848	Fri 04/25/08 12:32 PM
How ever long she needed if we loved each other ..

emilie013 Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 235	Fri 04/25/08 12:32 PM Edited by emilie013 on Fri 04/25/08 12:33 PM
Ummmm.....well. Last time I waited about 5 hours, and had talked for about six weeks daily. The last four weeks were several hours a day. But face to face time.... five hours seemed about right. If I'd been less nervous, I'd have done it sooner. I agree with you on this one. Sometimes carnal impulses take over

Thomas27 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 4860	Fri 04/25/08 12:32 PM
Shouldn't sex be a factor in determining whether or not you would want a relationship with that person? Just asking? so ur saying ya need a sample 1st Not necessarily, but if we are just dating and sex happened after 5 or 6 dates and it was bad or something. I probably wouldn't hang around for the serious relationship.

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Fri 04/25/08 12:33 PM
How ever long she needed if we loved each other .. now thats a respectable answer