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Topic: What's your opinion on this?
No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 04/26/08 06:57 PM
Would you tell a friend that you don't like their b/f or g/f? The specs: There is nothing bad going on, just a general dislike... personality clash maybe. They are newly dating and not really an official couple yet. You're not around them all the time, but meet up about once a week.

ShellyinAZ Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 480	Sat 04/26/08 06:58 PM
only if they asked for my opinion

Cambolaya65 Joined Mon 09/03/07 Posts: 5587	Sat 04/26/08 06:58 PM
cant do it....

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Sat 04/26/08 06:59 PM
Nope, been there done that.....

evilolive Joined Sun 05/27/07 Posts: 772	Sat 04/26/08 06:59 PM
nope, bad plan... if she is safe from harm there is no reason tell her later after they've broken up

wyatt1844 Joined Sat 01/26/08 Posts: 6761	Sat 04/26/08 07:00 PM
JMHO - Nope.

1956deluxe Joined Thu 12/06/07 Posts: 8559	Sat 04/26/08 07:01 PM
Bad idea.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 04/26/08 07:01 PM
nope, bad plan... if she is safe from harm there is no reason tell her later after they've broken up It's not me...it's a friend and her dislike of our mutual friends b/f. I told her to just stand back if she doesn't like him. She wants to tell her that she thinks he's an azz.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 04/26/08 07:02 PM
Nope, been there done that..... Did it ruin a friendship?

chickayoshi Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 8621	Sat 04/26/08 07:03 PM
My friend told me she didn't think the guy I was talking to was right for me. The guy and my religion clashed. I still like him, but the guy and I are friends...not by my choice...but by his.

zanne46 Joined Sun 07/01/07 Posts: 5610	Sat 04/26/08 07:04 PM
yes..and the last time I did...I was right... he is gone on his own bad behavior and her open eyes...

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Sat 04/26/08 07:05 PM
If I don't like him, I think that's my problem. As long as there is nothing bad about him that she needs to be warned about.

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sat 04/26/08 07:06 PM
Would you tell a friend that you don't like their b/f or g/f? The specs: There is nothing bad going on, just a general dislike... personality clash maybe. They are newly dating and not really an official couple yet. You're not around them all the time, but meet up about once a week. If my friend and I were very close,,and I thought them maybe getting hurt by the other,,,LIKE see them as a complete a$$hole,,,yes,,I would give them myb opinion..Because it will be MY A$$ they come to after they get hurt.. I try to look after my friends and to TRY not to have them be hurt by USER'S...

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 04/26/08 07:07 PM
My friend told me she didn't think the guy I was talking to was right for me. The guy and my religion clashed. I still like him, but the guy and I are friends...not by my choice...but by his. Ok...that's a little more mellow than my friends attitude...I think she's heading for a busted friendship here. I can't tell her what to do, but just warn her to consider their friendship. I don't even see why this guy rubs her wrong, but she can't stand him.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 04/26/08 07:07 PM
If I don't like him, I think that's my problem. As long as there is nothing bad about him that she needs to be warned about. That's my opinion exactly.

PunkRockPrincesS Joined Sat 04/26/08 Posts: 168	Sat 04/26/08 07:08 PM
Would you tell a friend that you don't like their b/f or g/f? The specs: There is nothing bad going on, just a general dislike... personality clash maybe. They are newly dating and not really an official couple yet. You're not around them all the time, but meet up about once a week. absolutely but heres the key, just be like look i really dont like this person but if you do im willing to respect that. you have every right to your opionon. friend or not. be honest with her and tell her u think hes a douche bag but then add but obv there must be something good about him because he landed you.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 04/26/08 07:09 PM
Would you tell a friend that you don't like their b/f or g/f? The specs: There is nothing bad going on, just a general dislike... personality clash maybe. They are newly dating and not really an official couple yet. You're not around them all the time, but meet up about once a week. If my friend and I were very close,,and I thought them maybe getting hurt by the other,,,LIKE see them as a complete a$$hole,,,yes,,I would give them myb opinion..Because it will be MY A$$ they come to after they get hurt.. I try to look after my friends and to TRY not to have them be hurt by USER'S... Unless she's not telling me something, I don't think it's like that...just a clash of personalities. I would agree though...if I thought she was headed for trouble.

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Sat 04/26/08 07:09 PM
Depends on weather this is a casual friend or the kind of friend that expects you to have her back. I

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Sat 04/26/08 07:09 PM
I wouldn't.. They'll know by the way you act or don't act anyway but I'd keep the peace... always easier/nicer...

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 04/26/08 07:11 PM
Depends on weather this is a casual friend or the kind of friend that expects you to have her back. I We have all been close friends since grade school...so, 25-30 years!