Topic: For the guys
TheShadow's photo
Tue 04/29/08 09:22 AM

grow some nads, tell her to shut up and make yur dinner


Well wouldn't go that far but she does need to see people have there own lives and you have to let them be who they are.

Winx's photo
Tue 04/29/08 09:23 AM


Some people believe that what is said between husband and wife should not be discussed with others. It's a personal conversation spoken with trust.
you always speak the truth but you know im only 21 my peers are like comon stay out and if i dont give them a good reason then they'll be mad at me its a catch 22:cry:


Are they all single with no responsibilities? Do any of them have a beautiful pregnant wife at home?

caponeog's photo
Tue 04/29/08 09:23 AM




have ur wife/gf ever told you to be home when she wants you to and when you tell urfriends why u gtg she gets mad and says dont tell them that i dont want them to think im controlingnoway wtf do you do?laugh


Tell her to grow up your your own person....
easier said then done first comes the crying then yelling im not up for all that laugh


laugh the ole crying. Ok i see, she wants what she wants and if she don't get it. ill cryhuh This is were you need to step up and be who you are no matter what!
i mean i let her do this cause shes pregnant

caponeog's photo
Tue 04/29/08 09:23 AM



Some people believe that what is said between husband and wife should not be discussed with others. It's a personal conversation spoken with trust.
you always speak the truth but you know im only 21 my peers are like comon stay out and if i dont give them a good reason then they'll be mad at me its a catch 22:cry:


Are they all single with no responsibilities? Do any of them have a beautiful pregnant wife at home?
nope laugh like crabs in the bucket if you know what i mean

TheShadow's photo
Tue 04/29/08 09:24 AM





have ur wife/gf ever told you to be home when she wants you to and when you tell urfriends why u gtg she gets mad and says dont tell them that i dont want them to think im controlingnoway wtf do you do?laugh


Tell her to grow up your your own person....
easier said then done first comes the crying then yelling im not up for all that laugh


She's pregnant, right? HORMONES. Humor her.flowerforyou
true grumble


Well this explains everything. YOUR F@uckedlaugh laugh

bobdesigns4262's photo
Tue 04/29/08 09:24 AM
seriously...you have to set boundries...being p-whipped is not a pretty sight and she is testing you to see how much she can hold on to you..its your ball game, either get on or off the porch

caponeog's photo
Tue 04/29/08 09:24 AM


grow some nads, tell her to shut up and make yur dinner


Well wouldn't go that far but she does need to see people have there own lives and you have to let them be who they are.
no i would never do that to her

caponeog's photo
Tue 04/29/08 09:25 AM

seriously...you have to set boundries...being p-whipped is not a pretty sight and she is testing you to see how much she can hold on to you..its your ball game, either get on or off the porch
some of that is true she does like to see how far she can push me but if you luv someone you'll do w/e they ask of youdrinker

caponeog's photo
Tue 04/29/08 09:27 AM






have ur wife/gf ever told you to be home when she wants you to and when you tell urfriends why u gtg she gets mad and says dont tell them that i dont want them to think im controlingnoway wtf do you do?laugh


Tell her to grow up your your own person....
easier said then done first comes the crying then yelling im not up for all that laugh


She's pregnant, right? HORMONES. Humor her.flowerforyou
true grumble


Well this explains everything. YOUR F@uckedlaugh laugh
i know :cry:

FallinAngel82's photo
Tue 04/29/08 09:29 AM
listen ur married and your about to become a father.. your family comes first.. not your friends.. you dont have to give them a good reason why you cant hang out with them and if they really need one.. tell them your wife that is carrying your child needs you for something.. its the only reason you need to give them..


if your friends dont like it.. oh well... you cant always have it all would you rather have friends or your family..

not saying she can controll your life.. but she does come before your friends

no photo
Tue 04/29/08 09:29 AM
If you are willing to accommodate her request by being home per her desire, then it is also your desire to be with her. In telling your friends that you need to be home for the old lady will make you look like a woos and her look like a controlling nag, whereas the case is actually neither. You obviously want to be with her or you would have declined her request. But, it's a situation which begs for negative feedback depending on how it is expressed. That's from whence her concerned commentary would arise. That will be 2 cents, please. flowerforyou

Winx's photo
Tue 04/29/08 09:30 AM
Edited by Winx on Tue 04/29/08 09:33 AM
Relationships are about compromise. In my eyes, your buddies are out of line if they get mad when you need to go home. Maybe they are jealous. It's really none of their business.
They don't even know what it is like to have someone special waiting at home for them.

You do have a pregnant wife who may be feeling insecure when she's home alone and you are out having fun. She may be wondering what kind of future it will be when the baby is born and she is home alone with the newborn and you're out having fun.

Maybe talk to her about this. Ask her what is bothering her about you going out? Do you go out alot? Ask her what kind of compromise would make her feel better. You need a good foundation for your future.

She is not your enemy. She is your family. Family comes first.
flowerforyou

caponeog's photo
Tue 04/29/08 09:31 AM

listen ur married and your about to become a father.. your family comes first.. not your friends.. you dont have to give them a good reason why you cant hang out with them and if they really need one.. tell them your wife that is carrying your child needs you for something.. its the only reason you need to give them..


if your friends dont like it.. oh well... you cant always have it all would you rather have friends or your family..

not saying she can controll your life.. but she does come before your friends
so true but if you know blk ppl they have them being a sell out **** in their minds i could care less but they always say itgrumble

caponeog's photo
Tue 04/29/08 09:31 AM

If you are willing to accommodate her request by being home per her desire, then it is also your desire to be with her. In telling your friends that you need to be home for the old lady will make you look like a woos and her look like a controlling nag, whereas the case is actually neither. You obviously want to be with her or you would have declined her request. But, it's a situation which begs for negative feedback depending on how it is expressed. That's from whence her concerned commentary would arise. That will be 2 cents, please. flowerforyou
laugh yea i wanna be with her or i would be home by 10 pmlaugh

TheShadow's photo
Tue 04/29/08 09:32 AM







have ur wife/gf ever told you to be home when she wants you to and when you tell urfriends why u gtg she gets mad and says dont tell them that i dont want them to think im controlingnoway wtf do you do?laugh


Tell her to grow up your your own person....
easier said then done first comes the crying then yelling im not up for all that laugh


She's pregnant, right? HORMONES. Humor her.flowerforyou
true grumble


Well this explains everything. YOUR F@uckedlaugh laugh
i know :cry:


Ok ill get serious. My ex is having my child in the next two weeks and when i first moved out here she was going through changes. Yes there was more to it then the hormons, but i did what i needed to do for me. When she was in her moods id let her be untill she could actually talk to me. Sometimes you just have to listen and not give any answers. Thats is all she is looking for right now, is you to be there. Just be understanding. And that means you have to bite yout tongue at times. It will pass. Just qurious though. How long is she?

caponeog's photo
Tue 04/29/08 09:33 AM

Relationships are about compromise. In my eyes, your buddies are out of line if they get mad when you need to go home. Maybe they are jealous. It's really now of their business.

You do have a pregnant wife who may be feeling insecure when she's home alone and you are out having fun. She may be wondering what kind of future it will be when the baby is born and she is home alone with the newborn and you're out having fun.

Maybe talk to her about this. Ask her what is bothering her about you going out? Do you go out alot? Ask her what kind of compromise would make her feel better. You need a good foundation for your future.

She is not your enemy. She is your family. Family comes first.
flowerforyou
you hit the nail on the head but i use to go out alot but when i met her i settled down but i think shes think i'll leave her one day she always tell me thats her biggest fear:cry:

chriswantstocuddle's photo
Tue 04/29/08 09:34 AM
man tel your friends that you want to be with her that day and if they dont get it do the little head nod and they will think its something else while you get to go home and be with the woman you love. thats the best advice i can give...it works for my dad...

FallinAngel82's photo
Tue 04/29/08 09:34 AM


listen ur married and your about to become a father.. your family comes first.. not your friends.. you dont have to give them a good reason why you cant hang out with them and if they really need one.. tell them your wife that is carrying your child needs you for something.. its the only reason you need to give them..


if your friends dont like it.. oh well... you cant always have it all would you rather have friends or your family..

not saying she can controll your life.. but she does come before your friends
so true but if you know blk ppl they have them being a sell out **** in their minds i could care less but they always say itgrumble



hate to tell you this.. your gonna find ppl like that wether your black,white , pink,red or brown..

doesnt matter

what your friends say or think doesnt matter when it comes to you and your family .. that is only between you and your family


and by the way .. congrats on becoming a new daddy

flowerforyou

caponeog's photo
Tue 04/29/08 09:34 AM








have ur wife/gf ever told you to be home when she wants you to and when you tell urfriends why u gtg she gets mad and says dont tell them that i dont want them to think im controlingnoway wtf do you do?laugh


Tell her to grow up your your own person....
easier said then done first comes the crying then yelling im not up for all that laugh


She's pregnant, right? HORMONES. Humor her.flowerforyou
true grumble


Well this explains everything. YOUR F@uckedlaugh laugh
i know :cry:


Ok ill get serious. My ex is having my child in the next two weeks and when i first moved out here she was going through changes. Yes there was more to it then the hormons, but i did what i needed to do for me. When she was in her moods id let her be untill she could actually talk to me. Sometimes you just have to listen and not give any answers. Thats is all she is looking for right now, is you to be there. Just be understanding. And that means you have to bite yout tongue at times. It will pass. Just qurious though. How long is she?
like 2 weeks but she acts like she 6 monthsnoway

caponeog's photo
Tue 04/29/08 09:36 AM



listen ur married and your about to become a father.. your family comes first.. not your friends.. you dont have to give them a good reason why you cant hang out with them and if they really need one.. tell them your wife that is carrying your child needs you for something.. its the only reason you need to give them..


if your friends dont like it.. oh well... you cant always have it all would you rather have friends or your family..

not saying she can controll your life.. but she does come before your friends
so true but if you know blk ppl they have them being a sell out **** in their minds i could care less but they always say itgrumble



hate to tell you this.. your gonna find ppl like that wether your black,white , pink,red or brown..

doesnt matter

what your friends say or think doesnt matter when it comes to you and your family .. that is only between you and your family


and by the way .. congrats on becoming a new daddy

flowerforyou
thank youblushing does feel nicebigsmile